I think I am pretty good at giving advice all my friends usually ask me my opinion about everything and I do have plenty of opinions, so if you need some advice just ask and I will be more than happy to give you my thoughts on the matter. Thanks for your questions.
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Location: West Virginia
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Age: 31
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OK me and my mom always teld to get in arguments and stuff! and she has always drinked and stuff even b 4 i was born!when ever she gets drunk and stuff shes always a bitch! and one time i hit her and i felt really bad! and she still drinks and me and my dad dont know what to do! he always calls the cops on her and stuff and says hes gonna make her move out but he never does! she is still living here! most kids wouldnt want their parents to get divorced! but im praying every night that thaey do! i dont realy care! and im having problems at skool and no 1 likes me! and when i say no 1 i mean no 1! i have like 4 friends @ my whole skool! and ppl always want to fight me! i have alot of drama in my life and i dont know what 2 do! i hate break ups and bad stuff ALWAYS comes 2 me! my friends turn against me and so do my bfs! and soo are my parents! my dad always yells @ me! and he drinks 2! just not as much as my mom! somtimes i really think about not living! like runnin away or whatever! should i! i cry everynight! yesterday i didnt go to skool cause i was cryin cause i hate my skool! and my parents wont transfer me and they dont never do anything about my problems! what should i do i need really bad help! i rate 5s! IM me on AIM southpolehunny14 to talk! THANX!! KAYLA!! (link)
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Well you sure do have a lot going on in your life. I can feel for you. My first thought would be to say to you that you are very important and what I mean by that is this, everyone has to go through things in their lives and alot of times those things just are not fair, but they make you become so much better, and we reach a point, when we get through it, when we have to make our own decisions about who and what we want to be, I think we all experience bad things to one degree or another but it is how we develop from that that makes us become who we are. You have a lot on your plate, but trust me someone is willing to listen and that is what you need. You are obviously a very strong person and you are very well spoken because you can tell people how you feel. I would suggest talking with someone older that you can trust, that can definately help out in this situation. Such as a teacher, older friend, counselor and let them know exactly what is going on. I feel you are having issues at school because you have no control at home, I feel for you and I do care, so please talk to a person who has the means to get you some type of help in dealing with all of this emotional stress. And nothing is worth leaving this life for, remember that and know you are worth something.
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ok ive been going with my new boyfriend for about a month now. our parents have already met and my parents LOVE this guy. and his parents love me. everything is perfect, but for some reason i dont even like him that much. i dont know why, but i just dont. a TON of girls like him, and he likes me alot and is very loyal to me. he goes to a different school but we live 3 blocks away from eachother and hangout all the time. the prob is theres this guy at my school who ive liked since the begining of the year. hes liked me too just a crush, but he had a gf and they been goin out for a year. well a bout 3 weeks ago they broke up. he broke up with her for me. he wants to be with me. well we talk on the fone 24/7 and hes super sweet. i really like him. but i dont wanna break up with my bf because hes perfect and my parents absolutly love him/trust me with him. but brandon and me really like eachother...heeelllpp (link)
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I feel this way, if you don't have those feelings for someone then you should let them go because it really isn't fair to them. I wouldn't want to be with someone because I felt sorry for them or because someone else liked them (such as parents), your parents can continue to like this boy and keep in contact with him. If you like someone else though you should let the current boyfriend in on this, and then you will be free to pursue your other love interest and you wont feel guilty in having those feelings. And you should talk to your parents about how you truly feel. I wouldn't want someone to be with me out of guilt or because they didn't want to hurt me.
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is it normal for your breasts to hurt during your period? (link)
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I would say yes it is.
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okay, for all you iditos who anwser questions with rude anwsers..go away now..because you arent wanted..
this one i would probaly like a girl to anwser..but hey, i dont care
okay, im 6th grade(girl of course)..corny but hey, and i like this guy..everyone says that we would look really good together, and i know him well. this is my 3rd year of being in the same class as him, we hang out together sometimes, and we basically sit next to eachother. well, his gf just broke up with him, althogh it wasnt a real relashonship..they never really liked eachother..well, i don't know if he likes me or not..we get along great and all..and well, i really want him to ask me out! he is so nice and funny, caring also..i always said that i would never have a bf until like 7th or 8th grade..cuz the relashonships are never real..but how can i clue him to like ask me out? or how can i get clues as to if he likes me or not? i really need help on this one..sorry for the length
signed..
need help!
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Not to sound stupid here but when you say date, does that mean an actual date or is it through school, as in see each other at school and hang out in groups or what exactly do you mean? I think if you like someone you should defiantely let them know and you could try being subtle at first like the eye contact and a cute little smile, if that doesn't work then maybe try a compliment just to get him thinking about you. If he is brain dead and doesn't get it then move on. Good luck and know there are plenty of guys out there and don't get to serious to quick.
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my bf is gone to vegas for a week and i hvaent talked to him 4 2 weeks i dont know what could have happened in vegas. he told me to email him everyday and that he would email me back i emailed like he said and he emailed me back once and on the email he told me a "a hot chick offered him a lap dance" no i know i am supposed to trust him which i do but i dont trust those others girls and when he drunk a lot of stuff can happen. i cant call him because his siter hates me and will yell at me so what should i do? should i worry? (link)
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Yes, I think you should be worried. Why would he tell you about the "hot chick", he obviously was trying to make you jealous, and not returning your messages is just downright rude! I am curious as to how old you are and how long you have been dating this guy? If you had a committed relationship I would think he would have enough repsect for you to call or email or get in touch somehow. Sorry to say but he sounds like a lost cause.
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