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tHiS iS sOoOoO iMpOrTaNt HELP!!!!
OK me and my mom always teld to get in arguments and stuff! and she has always drinked and stuff even b 4 i was born!when ever she gets drunk and stuff shes always a bitch! and one time i hit her and i felt really bad! and she still drinks and me and my dad dont know what to do! he always calls the cops on her and stuff and says hes gonna make her move out but he never does! she is still living here! most kids wouldnt want their parents to get divorced! but im praying every night that thaey do! i dont realy care! and im having problems at skool and no 1 likes me! and when i say no 1 i mean no 1! i have like 4 friends @ my whole skool! and ppl always want to fight me! i have alot of drama in my life and i dont know what 2 do! i hate break ups and bad stuff ALWAYS comes 2 me! my friends turn against me and so do my bfs! and soo are my parents! my dad always yells @ me! and he drinks 2! just not as much as my mom! somtimes i really think about not living! like runnin away or whatever! should i! i cry everynight! yesterday i didnt go to skool cause i was cryin cause i hate my skool! and my parents wont transfer me and they dont never do anything about my problems! what should i do i need really bad help! i rate 5s! IM me on AIM southpolehunny14 to talk! THANX!! KAYLA!!
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Well you sure do have a lot going on in your life. I can feel for you. My first thought would be to say to you that you are very important and what I mean by that is this, everyone has to go through things in their lives and alot of times those things just are not fair, but they make you become so much better, and we reach a point, when we get through it, when we have to make our own decisions about who and what we want to be, I think we all experience bad things to one degree or another but it is how we develop from that that makes us become who we are. You have a lot on your plate, but trust me someone is willing to listen and that is what you need. You are obviously a very strong person and you are very well spoken because you can tell people how you feel. I would suggest talking with someone older that you can trust, that can definately help out in this situation. Such as a teacher, older friend, counselor and let them know exactly what is going on. I feel you are having issues at school because you have no control at home, I feel for you and I do care, so please talk to a person who has the means to get you some type of help in dealing with all of this emotional stress. And nothing is worth leaving this life for, remember that and know you are worth something.
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Kayla,
hello sweetheart! you seem like a wonderful honest person and i know exactly what your going through! usually when i am answering peoples questions i leave my personal life out of it but i need to tell you about what i did...my mother drinks alot and she was very mean...my father moved away and i was going through alot! i moved out and lived with relatives. sometimes you need to get away! there are many services out there and you can take advantage of them! if your having trouble at school and you hate it that much and you cant handle where you live maybe you should consider job core or a ged program. you can always call the department of social services and they will do everything they can to help you! Like i said i went through the same thing and i lived in about 20 different places because no one i lived with liked me and i had a lot of drama in my life and had trouble in school...but i didnt give up and now i have tons of friends and a job and im about to have my own apartment in a few months so dont give up and sorry for talking about myself so much but i wanted to show you that ur not alone and not to give up! if u ever want to talk just write me on my page or im me...and i'd love for you to keep me posted! i loved your question and i want to know what happens to you!
shianne
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hi I can help you first thing you need to do is think about your self what you need and want then make friends at school and find a teacher you trust to talk to then you must talk to your mom about what she is doing to youand not when she is drunk then you need to tell your dad that he needs tofix your mom and do get help for your family there is to be safe and loving for you so write me and I can talk to you for this
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There is a couple things you can do, first off devorce isnt the answer to everything,have you ever asked your mom to go to A.A meetings ? Alcoholic's Anonymous [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) its a discussion group that is usually offered in a lot of places. Another idea is to get family counceling. Best of luck!
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Hey well one, on the mother drinking problem, I know exactly how you feel. My mother is an alchoholic herself. She also gets bitchy and threatends me with a lot of things.. so if you ever want to get more into that we could. But right now it looks like you're thinking about everything negative in your life.. you can't honestly think about one good thing that you have? Yeah parents can be assholes but there's always a better way to doing things than just running away. The best thing you can do whenever you're going through shit like this is stay strong. And the whole school things. Drama will eventually fade.. but then of course there's always going to be more after that. The best thing you can do is stick witht he firends you have... It LEAST you have four friends.. think about it like that, and what would happen if you didn't have them. Bad things happen to everyone.. you just gotta try and look at the positive side of things sometimes. (It's harder than it sounds I know).. Good luck, and I really hope you start to enjoy your life a little bit more sooner or later.
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Ok, just calm down. Sounds like your dad is too scared to kick your mom out for some reason, but if everything you said is true, then she really needs professional help. You need to talk to your dad and try to get your mom into some kind of rehab facility. I know it'll be hard,and she would probably be gone for a few months, but it could be even worse if she doesn't help soon.
Good luck talking to your dad and God bless!
Hope I helped!
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Have you got a close grandparent on your dads side? if you have talk to them about what is happening so they can speak to your dad about leaving your mom. or if u want u can sit down with your mom and talk to her but it doesn't sound like you have a very good mother/daughter relationship with her!
As long as you will be happy with your dad thats everything but your dad probably really loves your mom still no matter what they've been through. threatening to leave her is probably a more dramatic way of saying 'Buck your ideas up'. men always take a long time to get things done!
School advice on next message!!!
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