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Question Posted Tuesday March 29 2005, 5:13 pm

my bf is gone to vegas for a week and i hvaent talked to him 4 2 weeks i dont know what could have happened in vegas. he told me to email him everyday and that he would email me back i emailed like he said and he emailed me back once and on the email he told me a "a hot chick offered him a lap dance" no i know i am supposed to trust him which i do but i dont trust those others girls and when he drunk a lot of stuff can happen. i cant call him because his siter hates me and will yell at me so what should i do? should i worry?

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Additional info, added Tuesday March 29 2005, 6:44 pm:
i am 14 and he 16. we have been together for 4 months. if that helps..

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milliethu answered Thursday March 31 2005, 10:56 pm:
i wouldnt. vegas isnt that crazy. maby he was just joking. if he is 16 i dont know how he would get into some where with people giving lap dances hope i helped

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xOtWiXi answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 7:21 pm:
I wouldn't really worry honestly. If he loves you, he won't..well try to prevent doing anything that would ever hurt you. He's only 16, so what girl would want to give him a lap dance [no offense]? He wants you to be jealous. Talk with him when he comes back, and tell him to be honest. Don't call him, he wants you to be all "OMG-WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS SECOND-DON'T GO NEAR HER!". Don't give him the satisfaction! ♥ Hun, don't worry about it! As for him being drunk, he shouldn't really be drinking, and he would probably have to show an id to drink. If he did that to you, then he wouldn't be worth it anyway! After all, you have been together for four months, so I doubt he'd throw it all away for some hot night in Vegas- have a little more trust, and just hope he's being a good boy, lol. ♥ if you need anything, just contact me

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vaughnpascal answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 6:01 pm:
Yes, I think you should be worried. Why would he tell you about the "hot chick", he obviously was trying to make you jealous, and not returning your messages is just downright rude! I am curious as to how old you are and how long you have been dating this guy? If you had a committed relationship I would think he would have enough repsect for you to call or email or get in touch somehow. Sorry to say but he sounds like a lost cause.

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twstandshout32 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 5:34 pm:
hey sry if this is a little late but if he gets drunk alot and e-mailed u only about a lapdance then he probably got it..sorry to say it but i would totaly dump him unless you can totaly and completely trust him but...you just follow your heart and you will make the right choice. <3 ya Good Luck tell me what happens!

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FUNKYGIRL answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 5:19 pm:
Ok first of all if he is allowing his sister to yell at you that is one thing. Also, if he had yet to call you and the only email he wrote back to you was about a lapdance I say forget about him. There are many many fish in the sea and believe me when I say this, many want a nice girl to treat right. It will be hard at first but trust me. He is not worth the dirt you walk on. Especially if this isn't the first time he has treated you this way. Also, if he is telling about someone offering a lap dance, imagine what he has done he has said nothing about. If he was worth anything he would have called and told you how much he missed you and loved you.

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