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Question Posted Friday July 20 2007, 7:19 pm

hey,

recently me and my boyfriend had our nine month anniversary but we havent seen eachother in over a month becuase of summer and stuff, and we cant see eachother for another month..well i know i need to break up with him, he make me feel bad all the time, and my parents and friends think im in depression ...but i cant do that im not strong enough. he cheated on me, and then i cheated on him.. bad i know,, he never found out that i cheated on him but i found out he did, through his messages,,and im scared on his vacation he would cheat on me, he told me he loved me like really, but he lies to me constantly and does drugs just to get friends ( or says he does) just to act cool, and i told him my views on that subject becuase i dont want him to get hurt and he said he would change for me, but he hasnt.. well i can tell, but back to lying he lies about little things just to impress people or to make people feel bad for him, so i dont know him at all.. so i need help what do i do?
i think i love him,, or maybe im just loving the idea of love?? please help me xoxo


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christina answered Friday July 20 2007, 8:16 pm:
Honestly hun, you need to dump him. It's gonna be hard to do, and it might hurt him a bit, but honestly; it couldn't possibly hurt as much as all the times that he's hurt you.


Just do it. You have more than enough reasons to break up with him, and they're not dumb either. He's cheated on you, he lies to you, he does drugs & probably drinks as well, & you haven't even seen each other in a month & won't for a while. What's a relationship with no trust, & no honesty? There isn't one.


Break up with him. He's hurting you, and you don't deserve it, so end it before he does you over worse.

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crickee1613 answered Friday July 20 2007, 7:50 pm:
sweety every one loves the idea of love
we all want somebody there
i had to learn the hard way that you cant change some one. you dont deserve someone whos going to cheat on you or make you feel bad for not being able to change things. a guy thats going to treat you like that dosent love you or deserve a girl like you because before he can love you he must love himself ♥christina

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