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Will things ever change???
I just want to thank you for opening this and wasting 5 mins. of your life. I just wanted to know if things will ever change??? i'm 14 and I'm sure you remember when you were 14 or maybe you are 14 but w/e. I just wanted to know if things will change from being bad. Like not having any friends, being made fun of, not having a BOYFRIEND. Things were not like this when I was 13. Everything was GREAT! I had friends and boyfriends, they were never serious but I had 'em. Does it ever change? Or will I always be sad???
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After high school, the most amazing thing for me was the fact that I basically had a clean slate. So did everyone else.
In high school, sometimes you've known the people you're in class with for years. Even in middle school. Everyone knows you, remembers you, and theres no way to get a fresh start really. You have a reputation and you're constantly worried about maintaining it.
Its not like that in the outside world. You can change your circumstances, change your life, with relative ease.
I moved to college. Lived in the dorms. Met a host of new friends. Most of whom, I dont spend time with anymore for various reasons. I just was with the wrong crowd. I was searching out people who reminded me of my friends in high school. I was limiting myself.
I moved to a new place, started hanging out with new people, and now have a large number of close friends, all of whom I love spending time with. Been that way for several years now.
That to me is the biggest change you will go through in a few years. In school, its not that you go out and find people you can be friends with so much that you find people who you are alike enough to not kill each other alot of the time. You have a limited pool of people, everyone knows alot of other people, and you're stuck with whats in front of you.
Later in life it wont be that. If someone is not someone you want to be friends with, you can simply move on. You pretty much dont ever have to deal with them again.
The boyfriend and friends thing will come. Be yourself, be nice, and just get past these years.
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girl every thing does change
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just trust me everything will get better i was like that too and dont let anything or anyone get you down =]] ♥christina
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you'll pass through it, it's just a stage, maybe. or you changed your attitude, & no one likes the new you. go back to how you were, try to be very hygienic, dress nice, look nice, act nice, it'll all come through eventually. hope this helped,
-karyn
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