i like this guy, let's call him D. he's best friends with my sister's boyfriend, B. i knew that D had a girlfriend, L. but she was in florida at the time, but he said that they were on the rocks, if you know what i mean.. well D & B came over to my house about three weeks ago. at first it was awkward, because my sister and B were all over each other the whole time. also, D kept texting L a lot, so i was kindof left out. and after a while, my sister and B got in a fight about something stupid, and went outside to talk about it. so me and D were just sitting in the kitchen, and then L called him. he had it on speaker, and she deffinately was drunk. i didn't hear everything she said, but after he hung up, he was like, "i'm so sick of her doing this", like she's called him drunk before. but idk. so after D & B left, i guess when they were driving home, B asked D if he liked me, and he said "if L wasn't in the picture, i'd like her." now that L's home from florida, her and D are better than ever, because they made up. but i really like him, and i don't want him to get hurt. but today, i was at a fair, and D and L were there, and i was like "hey D" and he gave me this big hug, while L was giving me dirty looks the whole time.
would it be weird if i told B that i liked him? they're like brothers, and they spend all of their time together. like, if i told him that i want to hang out with D more, even though L is home?
thanks in advance
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jennuhhx answered Saturday July 21 2007, 2:15 pm: definately tell B that you like D. that would make things much easier. because then D will realize that you like him and he likes you. then L and D will probably get into a fight, then he'll come to you for support. if he asks you out right after they break up or get into a little fight. DO NOT say yes, because that means hes using you to get revenge and make his old girlfriend L jealous. tell him not now, not right after he broke up with L and tell him why. just hang out with him more and he'll realize that your more for him, not L.
crickee1613 answered Saturday July 21 2007, 1:38 am: it wouldnt be weird to tell B that you like D
but idk he might be hurt if him and his gf broke up. and im sure he wouldnt move on to you as soon as they broke up, if they broke up. and if you do start hanging out with him more just be careful cuz drama could start . goodluck ♥christina [ crickee1613's advice column | Ask crickee1613 A Question ]
Deana answered Saturday July 21 2007, 1:35 am: Hahah I'm Kind of lost with the names but I so think you should tell B that you like him because if D was ever to find out, that would be great.
It might seem like a " uhm no what the heck?! That would be bad" but actually no it wouldnt. He'll finally see that you guys feel the same way about eachother. And that would be great.
And don't get L in your way of hanging out with D. I think you should hang out with him. But even though you really like him, remember he has a gf. Just be patient and maybe he'll break up with her, because of the sound of her, she sounds like a little snotty gf.
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