i met this guy but he doesnt go to my school so i dont know much about him. he seems really cool, and he makes me laugh, and is nice to me. hes the only guy i know that has so much in common with me. i really like him and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet.
my point is, is that i was talking to his friend and he told me some things like that he lies alot and argue alot. and that he gets into trouble alot. he says that he cheats on girls and just wouldnt make a good boyfriend.
we've talked and he seems like he would be. i dont mind the arguing part or him getting into trouble. i just dont know about the ling part. i dont know if i should just go out with him and see for myself. i just dont want to get my heart broken cause i really like him.
You can't believe what everything people say though. They might be jelous or something like that. I dont know, you never know.
But be straight up with the guy . Ask him if he ever cheated. Be really honest with him. Get to know him really good or more. If you really like him; i say what the heck take a chance. But love can be really tricky , and you have to take chances in order to have a good relationship.
bt4t answered Friday July 20 2007, 11:50 pm: I would try and ask him out. There's no point in forever wondering if he really likes you or not, when you could rather know that he doesn't like you and be done with it.
I would not trust his friend, he might be lying as well. It's only you that can see if he's really like that, and if you really like him a lot, then you can try to help change his weak points as well. Maybe him being around you will be good for him, you know, make him more truthful and he'd be able to spend more time with you, which would allow him to not have as much time to get into trouble.
And who knows, he might just become a changed man, all thanks to your hard work and dedication.
crickee1613 answered Friday July 20 2007, 11:41 pm: girl do you want to live thinking what could have happend?or learned from something new ?
and also i think if you really like him you wouldnt care what others say about him.. its your call ♥christina [ crickee1613's advice column | Ask crickee1613 A Question ]
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