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okay so im 15/f and my boyfriend is 18. we started dating about a week ago. well hes older than me hes just a lot more experianced than me. we make out all the time and hes really like "fast" with it but its been fine with me. but i let him finger me last night and it was the first time someone has. well he was really fast and when it started to hurt i told him to slow down and he would just whisper to me that "ill be fine and he knows what hes doing" and he kept going just as fast. so i finally told him to just stop and he didnt and so i closed my legs and he just pushed them back and held me there until he was done.. im kind of scared now cause we've talked about having sex but im scared he'll hurt me a lot more and i dont really know what to do cause i dont want to break up with him but it really scared me when he was basically holding my legs apart when i was telling him to stop. what should i do? (link)
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i don't think you should be with him cause if you tell him to stop and he doesn't then you never know what he would do when your ready to go to the next level.
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ok i know this probably sounds stupid but i have to go and buy condoms but i dont exactly know what size to get by guy hes black so hes pretty big lol but then again im not a dick expert so what size do you think would be the safest for my man (link)
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you are right that was a very stupid question and if i were you would be really ashame to get in a store and ask to buy condom for my boyfriend. i mean think about it. shouldn,t he be the one to go buy his condom cause he knows how big his baby is.
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does anyone know any excuses that i could tell my parents when i come home with a hickey? they would kill me if they knew but i dont know what to tell them if they see it.. help! (link)
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just tell them you got hit or that something hit you. but just in case, just make sure they don't find out and if it is something that you know they would be mad about don't have a hickey.
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I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?
16 YEAR OLD GIRL.
Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?
Thank you for the time!
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i would keep the child even knowing that the child would be a daily reminder. i look at it as a good thing from a bad and horrible situation.
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honestly... Do you think age 15 and a half is too young to staart thinking about having sex when i'm like, 16? (link)
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your a teenager more teens think about sex. you just shouldn't be having sex at the age 15 and a half or 16
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Alright.. wow.
well i was talking to my bf and we've been together almost 4 years, and we havent gotten very intimate. not past 1st base, i've tried to go down on him several times and he just never lets me.
well, today we were asking eachother random questions, and I asked him what his size was.
well, it took a really long time to get out of him, but its because hes only 2 inches.
Well, that was akward.
What i want to know, is how much does it actually take to please a woman?
hes really self concious now, and i need like, statistics to tell him, something that will make him feel better :/
please guys!
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comment him as much as possibly
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Hey,
my boyfriend went to this club a couple of months ago and he said they were "grinding" I just found out what grinding meant.. not that long ago and I was just wondering : DO you think it's wrong for my bf to grind with him friends (that are girls!) like should I have been upset? (link)
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no you shouldn't be upset. if just dancing even if it seems like he is a little to close to the other girl don't get upset. when you go to a party and you find a guy to dance with you wouldn't want your boyfriend to get upset.
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so me and my bf are gonna have sex soon... Im 16, and i dont wanna go on the pill becuase I dont want my mom knowing.. ANYWAYS. I was just wondering, we wanna be REALLY safe, so a condom FOR SURE and we dont wanna have sex when im like about to ovulate u know.. so whats the best time? and also. he wouldnt ejacualte in me... how safe are we? (link)
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as you know already condoms aren't a 100 percent safe. and about your mother no finding out she gonna find out sooner or later.
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OK. Well I have a bf but am not planning on having sex THAT soon but I still have a question.
I have been hearing and reading [on here] that your first time hurts. And im wondering, does it hurt like REALLY bad, or is it worth it?? Because im kind of scared because I do not want it to hurt.
THANKS! any advice is wanted!
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it depend on your body structure but yes it does hurt. for some it hurts more than others. this is why they say you should wait till your ready so you won't just give it up to someone who doesn't love you. that way you wouldn't go through all that pain for nothin.
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ok well i started my period in the summer.. for the first time it was always really heavy and alot came out.. but when it stopped i havent really had it since.. like maybe once and it was like bloody water, my boyfriend comes over every weekend and we kind of dry hump.. we are completely clothed but i felt something wet against my vagina.. i dont kno if it was him or me but he said he didnt cum it could have been precum. could i b pregnant? and then another thing is i gave him head last weekend and i was wearing clothes and he was laying on the bed and i was too. if he touched me and he had it on him after he wiped it off? or like if i touched my vagina and it was still on there.. im not really worried about that so much as the other one.. sorry this is so long but im like freaking out.. oh and i havent had my period in like forever. and im scared to go to the doctor because of the chance that i am pregnant and when i asked my parents about it they just said that when u first start ur period they are going to b irregular. im SCARED please help (link)
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no you will not get pregnant. you only get pregnant if you have sexual intercourse with the other person. sperm and egg join together and -voila! -nine months later there's a baby.
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15 ½ \f\ virgin
okay I wanna go on the pill, but I don't know how to tell my mom! I know i'm young... I just don't know what to tell her.
Please, what could I tell her? Or any excuses? like bad cramps becuase of pms....
thanks in advance! (link)
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tell your mom that you wanna go on pill becuase you might/can lose your virginity anytime. sometimes it happens whether you lilke it or not. you never know anything can happen i'm not saying your gonna get raped but if it does happen you wanna make sure your well protected.
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I just finished my period yesterday and today my boyfriend and i had sex, bleeding after is normal right? cause at first i thought... like shit my periods not over.. but bleeding after sex happens all the time right? (link)
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my advice to you is to go talk to your doctor about this because it depends on how much experience you have.
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15/f
I'm mainly attracted to guys but I'm attracted to girls too... I've talked about having sex with girls... And i LOVE being eaten out by my dog... I like the thought of ANY kind of sexual experience (whether it's w/ a man, woman, or animal)
I'd do anything. so am I trisexual?
please don't assume that because i'm 15 I can't know what my orientation is. I passed puberty years ago. just treat this question as if it were coming from an adult. (link)
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yes you are trisexual because the thought of any sexual experience with a man,woman and animal is pressurable
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lol okay so im nikita im a 16/f at seven lakes high school. and i have a crush on this boy named Alejandro. he's this r eally cute hispanic sophmore!!! lol well my friend Eva is in his class 5th period but she doesn't know and doesn't talk to him. so i couldn't really get her to introduce me to him. well today i kinda talked to him. i asked him if he raps because his friend was. it was funny.. and i asked what class my friend was in and he said w. history lol and thats it haha.. well anyways i don't really know him that well. and i just don't want to go up to him and start talking to him. becuase i use to to do that alot and guys think thats weird. so yeah what should i do? like how should i start talking to him?? (link)
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when you see him in the hallway ask him if he happens to have a pen or pencil on him. if he says yes say " thank's your a life saver i've been asking everybody for a pen/pencil but nobody had one to offer i guess you were ready and prepared for school this mmorning" and laugh about it. if he says no then you can just ask him if he knows what the homework was in history class even if your not in his class. hopefuly you do take history. if you do also ask him if he understands whatever chapter your on if so ask him for his number so you can review sometime.
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I'm really unsatisfied with my hair color. I have about two inches of roots, and no matter how many times I try, my hair will never be one color. The roots are golden brownish blonde and the rest of my hair is reddish brown. Should I just bleach my hair and start afresh? If so, should I try going dark (like dark brown instead of medium reddish brown) or maybe a golden brownish blonde. By the way, I'm pale with blueish greenish eyes if that helps any. (link)
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well i would say that maybe you shold start afresh that way your hair wouldn't keep changing colors eveytime you add a new color to it.i think you should try medium reddish brown. that would look really nice with you blueish greenish eyes
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My friend LOVES my b/f, literally. She walks up him(while i am around) and pushes me over and says "Hi Zach-y" and flirts with him. I have told her MULTIPLE MULTIPLE times that she needs to stop. Because now like when me and my b/f walk down the halls holding hands she runs up in between us and says "Hey Zach-y why are you and (my name) holding hands? You know that when you and her break up i am tottaly gonna go out with you!(then she blows him a kiss and skips away)"
Now i KNOW that he is not going out with her also.
When she talks to him like calls hime "Zach-y" he looks disgusted then stares at me like "why the F*ck are you friends with her???" he has recently started not sitting with me becuase of her. He has told me that he can't stand her and he tells me to tell her and i do. I am afriad that my friend is jepordizing my relationship(with an AMAZING guy)
WHAT DO I DO? (link)
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i think you could call her to the said and tell her in the nicest way possible to get a life. you should also try to find her a man so that way she wouldn't be all up in your bussiness.
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that teenagers are having sex earlier and earlier...
I sure dont want to have sex any time in high school...but I know lots of my friends are ready. to be honest it just all freaks me out...
yes, i'm afraid of having sex...and i just don't see how it would be pleasurable.
any comments or advice would help!
thx.... (link)
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i,m justb like you and i,m happy you feel this way see many people think you are a wimp if you are still a virgin but all that is trsh because trust me they are gonna be the once in streets carrying babes and we will be riding in cars with our masters degrees helping them and that if we want ok i love your thinking good gurl
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15 (almost 16)/female
This is embarrassing but I am almost 16 and still a virgin. I have made out like twice(but i find myself not to be the best kisser becuase i think about it way to much b.c im afraid ill mess up) . No fore play, sex or anything. Not because I dont want to but Im afraid to do it wrong or mess up. Also when it comes down to it Im nervous about my body, but thats not a big concern to me tho. And compared to 80% of my friends Im like the most unexperienced. Its not like i couldnt do all the stuff, but my fears are keeping me from them. Well my questions are..
How would I give a hand job or blow job that will pleasure him?
If i happen to discharge on a guys fingers when he fingers me..is that normal?
Any suggestions or good advice? I need it. :[ Im pretty pathetic to think about it. (link)
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look here honey you just ned to be pateint and gety someone to help you u well screw that cause i will help you see the problemm is you are too scared way too scared its ok to be a 16 yrs old virgin ok i,m happy you are but u can make out all you want just don,t act a fool
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when my boyfriend fingers me, like a lot, i usually tend to bleed...but when we have sex, i don't.
why is this?
and its not because of his fingers nails, they are really short.. (link)
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you see u need to fix this problem by telling him then that you might have just been from you period and maybe it is just looking for a way to come out again or he has really dip his fingers into you maybe that is the problem but what evert the issue is just tell him to fix it by having more sex insted of fingering and makesure he doesn,t really dio his finfers in ther
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Before I ask this question, I just wanna say I don't want any answers that say 'go look in your textbook', or 'wiki it'. Because every time I ask a random science/history/etc-related question, that's half the answers i get D:< But believe it or not, people who randomly question the world around them actually exist. THEY DO.
Well, anyway. I was just wondering - why and how do planets/stars/ move? I mean, I know they move around the sun and whatnot because of gravity, but that just keeps them in orbit...doesn't it? (link)
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well as you see my dear the sun the moon and the stars rotate so whate ever you do has gravity and there is no reason for anywrong answers casue the point is that we all are predictors but believe me the world is round and it goes in a circle too and so does the stars and the moon
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