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it seems...
that teenagers are having sex earlier and earlier...
I sure dont want to have sex any time in high school...but I know lots of my friends are ready. to be honest it just all freaks me out...
yes, i'm afraid of having sex...and i just don't see how it would be pleasurable.
any comments or advice would help!
thx....
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Well I think it is very good that you are not wanting to have sex in high school! That can save you from a lot of problumes, such as pregnancy, std's, and just being known as the slut or being easy or something like that. Your friends may talk about it but really it is a personal thing that you do not want to have sex. If you were one of my friends in high school I would have so much respect for you! It takes alot of stregth to be not pressured into it or to not want to do it. Trust me you will want to keep from having sex until after high school and better yet after marriage!
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i'm soo happy im not the only one :D
i feel the same way dont worry!
i think you have your life going right where you want it for your friends i think thay should wait it out because i dont think thay want there first crip to be for there baby!
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i agree, i remember being really little and thinking that people didn't have sex until they were in college or their 20's! but nowadays, it seems to be a growing trend to have it way younger. however, i believe it's also a personal choice, and although kids are doing it younger and younger, it's a learning experience. do i agree that kids should be having sex at ages younger than 16? not at all, i believe it's wrong. (however, i myself lost my virginity at 16.) it's about being responsible and understanding the consequences of the actions. it's okay to be afraid, that's a huge sign you aren't ready. when you're ready, you won't be afraid anymore! stick up for how you feel, and don't let anyone tell you anything different!
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Yes, they really are starting really early now.
I can see how it could be freaky & that means that you aren't ready for it, as you already know.
If you don't want to... just don't. there's no rush. if you're still afraid by the time you're 20, then it might be a bigger issue but for now, you are completely fine. sex in high school is usuallyyyy a bad idea anyway so you're on the right track. <3
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Just 'not being interested' in sex is A-okay. Fraknly, some people are never all that interested in it, and they still lead happy, fufilling lives. Sex has different levels of importance to different people.
It's cool to be freaked out a bit. It is a freaky thing realistically. It's risky and it can expose you to some serious pain. I can tell you that it is pleasurable, that it's fun and great and all that stuff, but you'll make up your own mind eventually no reason to take my word for it, or your friends.
Just relax. If you hated pizza would you force yourself to eat just 'cause everyone else loved it? Probably not. It's more or less the same thing.
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me neither.. i'm scared about having sex, too. it kinda freaks me out as well.. sometimes i also wander how you can get pleasure out, too. well, my friends aren't ready either. but this is all ok, it's good to be a virgin in High School, where I'm from, that'd be something to be proud of lol.. but I agree with the first person, your not gonna be the one carrying a baby around while your still in high school. don't worry about other teenagers, and sometimes they just like to say they're having sex when they're really not they just sometimes say that b/c they think everybody else is doing it, but try not to be one of those people... well I know it's not much but I hope I helped some-what..lol =) * Skyla *
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i,m justb like you and i,m happy you feel this way see many people think you are a wimp if you are still a virgin but all that is trsh because trust me they are gonna be the once in streets carrying babes and we will be riding in cars with our masters degrees helping them and that if we want ok i love your thinking good gurl
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