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15 (almost 16)/female
This is embarrassing but I am almost 16 and still a virgin. I have made out like twice(but i find myself not to be the best kisser becuase i think about it way to much b.c im afraid ill mess up) . No fore play, sex or anything. Not because I dont want to but Im afraid to do it wrong or mess up. Also when it comes down to it Im nervous about my body, but thats not a big concern to me tho. And compared to 80% of my friends Im like the most unexperienced. Its not like i couldnt do all the stuff, but my fears are keeping me from them. Well my questions are..
How would I give a hand job or blow job that will pleasure him?
If i happen to discharge on a guys fingers when he fingers me..is that normal?
Any suggestions or good advice? I need it. :[ Im pretty pathetic to think about it.
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at 16, you SHOULD be a virgin.
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almost 16 and a virgin is a good thing... just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean it doesn't have consequences. if you're nervous about your body or if you're a good kisser, you're not ready or comfortable enough with the person. wait until you're at least in a good happy relationship before starting.
it's better to be inexperienced than having pregnancy scares alll the time. [they get annoying].
to answer your questions...
1. you just kinda do it... since your friends are all experienced, get tips from them. you can even have the guy teach you. trust me, you can't do it wrong... and if you do, they'll let you know and if you're with the right person, it won't be embarrassing at all.
try www.handjobadvice.com [yes, it's actually a site...no it's not porn]
2.discharge/cum/liquid while he's fingering you is a GOOD thing. first off, it makes everything easier and less painful. guys like making girls cum sooo don't be afraid to or whatever.
ok if he does get "grossed out" [which i've never ever heard of] he's wayyyy too young to get involved with.
if you need anything else, let me know. <3
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there should be nothing embarassing admitting your still a virgin and your almost 16. it's actually not embarassing to admit your still a virgin when your 20. You should really wait 'till your married 'till you have sex.. wait till you find that perfect guy and ya get married, then you'll know you lost your virginity to someone special in which you truely love. As for only making out, I'll be 17 Nov. 1 and haven't even got my first kiss.. Honestly, i'm too nervous about that. and my friends are more experienced than me too, but only for the kissing part.. don't try to goes as far as giving a hand or blow job, trust me, your way to young, wait for that special guy ;) there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin, like me lol.. my advice to you is WAIT!!! hope i helped =) * Skyla *
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look here honey you just ned to be pateint and gety someone to help you u well screw that cause i will help you see the problemm is you are too scared way too scared its ok to be a 16 yrs old virgin ok i,m happy you are but u can make out all you want just don,t act a fool
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They will give you the best answers, as noone here is allowed to go into detail.
2. Of course it's normal. If you're wet, it shows you're turned on by him.
Finally, you're normal. Everyone goes through it at some point.
16 isn't necessarily old and you shouldn't be embarrassed because you're still a virgin etc. Who cares if your friends are doing it and if you're less experienced. When you find the right guy, it will make it so much more worthwhile and special.
You really have nothing to worry about. I'm sure whatever you do, the guy will be pleased anyway. Plus, if you ask him to, he will guide you and tell you which feels good, because all guys like different things. With practice you'll become better and better, so to be honest, it's not really a problem.
Put yourself in the guys position..I'm sure he doesn't know what he's doing 100% either!
You may just not be ready mentally. There's no reason to be afraid.
Just give yourself a bit of time. and when you're in a decent relationship, your fears will disappear.
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