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dirty dancing
Hey,
my boyfriend went to this club a couple of months ago and he said they were "grinding" I just found out what grinding meant.. not that long ago and I was just wondering : DO you think it's wrong for my bf to grind with him friends (that are girls!) like should I have been upset?
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All i can tel you is personally, id be very upset. Thats not cool. Hes suposed to be your boyfriend. I count thatcheating.
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It really comes down to how you feel, but I personally, would not like it. That is if he was being totally serious and into it. If he was joking around and stuff, I wouldn't be so upset though.
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no you shouldn't be upset. if just dancing even if it seems like he is a little to close to the other girl don't get upset. when you go to a party and you find a guy to dance with you wouldn't want your boyfriend to get upset.
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It only depends ,
if that doesn't bother you then it doesn't bother you .
What somebody says shouldn't change your mind .
But to me ,
my opinion , i wouldn't like it ,
because boys get pretty turned on by that ,
and i wouldn't like it at all .
Next time you should go w. him ,
lol .
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It really depends on the circumstances.
If he was just joking around and having a good time, then it's fine.
However, if he was getting really into it and touching the girls in a sexual way, I would worry.
However, this was a couple of months ago. I doubt it means much now.
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.. yes??
grinding is just like cheating on you
if he wants to grind them.
he should be dating them
grinding is a call for wanting MORE usually.
tell him if he's going to go grinding who ever
he might aswell sleep with them.
and with that
you wont date him?
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Not acceptable. If you want to make sure he's faithful I wouldn't let him. And if he cared about your feelings he'd respect your decision about that. He's with YOU, not THEM. Why should he have the best of both worlds?
Best wishes.
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personally i'd be kinda pissed off if other girls were grinding on my boyfriend.
but i know some people that let eachother dance with other people at partys.
its kind of a personal preference.
:)
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