Alright.. wow.
well i was talking to my bf and we've been together almost 4 years, and we havent gotten very intimate. not past 1st base, i've tried to go down on him several times and he just never lets me.
well, today we were asking eachother random questions, and I asked him what his size was.
well, it took a really long time to get out of him, but its because hes only 2 inches.
Well, that was akward.
What i want to know, is how much does it actually take to please a woman?
hes really self concious now, and i need like, statistics to tell him, something that will make him feel better :/
please guys!
jessbyrd1120 answered Wednesday October 10 2007, 2:26 am: Well I really don't know what to tell you..except that women only feel pleasure about 3 inches in anway...I personly cant tell you what it would belike since my one and only partener I have EVER had is 7in so yea sorry if i didnt help [ jessbyrd1120's advice column | Ask jessbyrd1120 A Question ]
christina answered Monday October 8 2007, 6:47 pm: Tell him that you don't care how big he is. Size doesn't matter, and it shouldn't. I mean, of course you don't want someone who could rip you apart or hurt you, you want someone decent. Obviously, 2 inches isn't even that bad. It's not that great, but it's not a big deal.
Mindylynn19 answered Monday October 8 2007, 4:30 pm: well even as embarressing as that amy be for your boyfriend, i dated a guy that was about that size and i enjoyed it more than any other uy i have ever been with, (8inches, 3 inches, and 5 inches) [ Mindylynn19's advice column | Ask Mindylynn19 A Question ]
queenhearts answered Monday October 8 2007, 6:11 am: i don't think size matters in pleasing a woman. It really depends on SKILL. You know even a larger size may not pleasure you. They have to know some knowledge as to what they are doing. When girls say size matters and bigger is what they want. Anything beyond .. i don't know. 8 or 9 inches could be really painful.
When your boyfriend becomes hard, he's probably twice that size. Since you have been together for so many years.. Maybe you should start to try to become intimate.. Let him know that his size is okay. If you don't orgasm during sex, it's not uncommon.. most women can't. I really think it depends on skill. Practice and tell him what you like. I never thought I would orgasm off of penetration alone. Usually I don't. So don't give him statistics. He doesn't need to hear it. But most men are not large, it's just bragging for a higher confidence, you know? Large isn't always that great. Small and average can be good enough.
You just have to try things and talk to him. Let him know you're going to be with him because after that, he's probably going to constantly think about the possibility that you're going to leave him and tell people. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
B00TSZ answered Monday October 8 2007, 2:07 am: yeahh if you been wid him fo 4yrs den size definatly shuldnt matter n you need to tell him that or show him it dnt. he has been watchin to much porn n its gotten to him that big sizes please women. ill let you in on sumthin lil mama. i dun it wid a 2incher before n wen he got hard it was 4 inches. n im guessin you a virgin so even wen he get hard n turns to 4inches it gunna hurt. so you gunna b happy he lil n he gunna lubb it cause you will b moanin n he will get confidence cause he makin you happy. [ B00TSZ's advice column | Ask B00TSZ A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday October 8 2007, 1:49 am: Statistics are doubtfully going to make him feel better. He is not a statistic, he is a person with feelings.
I wouldn't just keep bringing it up and what not, or he is probably just going to feel even more inadequate, because it will come off like you are obsessing over it.
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