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so me and my bf are gonna have sex soon... Im 16, and i dont wanna go on the pill becuase I dont want my mom knowing.. ANYWAYS. I was just wondering, we wanna be REALLY safe, so a condom FOR SURE and we dont wanna have sex when im like about to ovulate u know.. so whats the best time? and also. he wouldnt ejacualte in me... how safe are we?
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as you know already condoms aren't a 100 percent safe. and about your mother no finding out she gonna find out sooner or later.
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well using a condom and while hes wearing that and not cum'in in you, id say you have nothing to worry about. i say using a condom is as safe as it gets unless its splits.
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There are alternatives to the pill. You can get on the depo provera shot, but you do have to make sure you get the next shot on time (I think they're about 3 months apart). You can go to any Planned Parenthood (or other women's health clinic) and obtain this for free and without them telling your parents. They will even supply you with condoms and instruct you on how to use them.
Also the pull out method isn't reliable. It is best if you use condoms AND another form of birth control such as the pill or depo provera. Of course the absolute safest thing is to just not do it at all.
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"as long as he doesn't ejaculate in you, you're safe..."
All I can say is, there's no way to know for sure:
Fluid can leak out before ejaculation, so be sure to make sure you get the right size condom.
[Yes, i know this could come to quite an embarrassing situation.]
The only way to be REALLY safe is to just not do it. :]
[ugh, yeah. everything from 7th grade family life is actually true.]
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it's hard to determine the best time for a teenager because your period and everything still isn't completely regulated or matured, but as long as he doesn't ejaculate in you, there's no way you can get pregnant.
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