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oh goodness, pregnant?
last night i hung out with this guy who i used to date before he got locked up. i havnt seen him for a year but when i saw him again it was amazing. well, we ended up doing it but he didnt have a condom. and before you say it, i know! stupid move!! what was i thinking!? yeah, i know, me and him were talking about that all night. so we know we did wrong. no need to tell us we did. now im worried that im pregnant, he didnt cum in me, i know FOR SURE because i cleaned it up. and he cant talk to his parents because hes still on house arrest and if he has any contact with ME he will go back into juvie. so hes 16 and im still 15 but ill be 16 on december 8th. i dont know what to do. i want to get a test so hes going to get a friend of his to buy it. but could i buy a test? i know i cant buy the morning after pill because you have to be 18. he called me this morning to see if i felt sick, i did, but i felt like that last night, like a hungry sick. i didnt throw up or anything. i havnt eaten very much food latley.
im freaking out. i live im michigan if that helps, and if you cant tell in the story im 15/f.
im totally scared, i could never tell my mom about this, im not on birth control - i want to be but my mom dosent want me to be. i would like advice on what to do, and anything, incase i am pregnant. anything please!
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yes stupid move but if you Could find someone to buy you the morning after pill you'd be alot safer. If your just not willing to do that then you have to wait and just find out. You will not have signs of being pregnant already you have to give it so many days after your "missed" period. Taking a pregnancy test right now will do no good cause its going to be negative. Considering he didnt cum inside of you, your chances of being pregnant will go down but you can still get pregnant from pre-cum. If i were you i would deff. try to see if you can find someone to buy you the morning after pill. If not then just wait to see if you miss your period next month, if you do then you need to take a test. If it happens to be positive you need to tell you mom without a doubt. Because, you will need to see a doctor.
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I suggest going to planned parenthood or some women's clinic. I know you can get the morning after pill there, as I had friends do that (under 18). They will give you a FREE pregnancy test, but if you want you ARE ABLE to buy one at a store on your own. If you need any more information contact your local planned parenthood or look up women's clinics in your yellow pages. You may contact me again on here or my myspace (located on my page). Best of luck.
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Ok first of all you need to calm down. the reason you feel sick is becuase you are stressing yourself out. It is possible that you could be pregnant however you cant do anything about it just yet so just try and relax.
Second, you can take a pregnancy test but it will most likely be too early to tell if you're pregnant. Do you have a regular period? if you do then you can wait until that time. if you're late take a pregnancy test or you can take one a week or so before you are supposed to get it that will probably give you a pretty accurate reading.
If you're worried about telling your mom then wait until you know for sure. Wait until you've missed your period and seen the results of the test. there is no need to get all worked and cause drama between you and her and then find out that you are not pregnant at all. The best thing you can do is try and stay calm and just wait and see what happens.
If it turns out that you are pregnant then you have to tell her. She'll be able to help you decide what you are going to do and she WILL help you. Yes she will be upset but she is your mother and she will help you through this if you are pregnant.
Good luck I hope i was able to help. And stay calm (i know its easier said than done) but you will make yourself sick if you continue to stress yourself out like this
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Just because he didn't ejaculate doesn't mean you don't have sperm in you. A man pre-cums a bit before actual orgasm. Any time sperm meets labia a woman can be pregnant.
You wouldn't have any pregnancy symptoms a day after having sex, so theres no use checking for morning sickness.
There is also no pregnancy test available that will tell you whether or not you're pregnant yet since you are only a day in. I think the soonest a test will work is 5 days, but those aren't the most reliable.
There is a chance you are pregnant.
You need to tell your mother. Even if you don't want to, and even if she'll ground you for life and beat you half to death. There may still be some time to do something about it. If you start showing its not like she isn't going to know anyway.
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