x0advice4y3w answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 9:23 pm: well first of all whoever your having sex with should be someone special to you, and they should completly understand. ;) and usually it doesn't happen during the sex it happens after/ or the day after. [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
Flannl_bxrs answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 8:21 pm: Personally I don't get disgusted in the least, but I think it's a personal preference type of thing, objectively speaking. Be sure to communicate with the guy; let him know what feels comfortable and what doesn't, and tell him to be gentle and there's a good chance that there won't be any bleeding at all. Not all of us guys are into rough sex! [ Flannl_bxrs's advice column | Ask Flannl_bxrs A Question ]
karisue answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 5:49 pm: Number one, if a guy is a true & caring boyfriend, then he wouldn't be disguisted. He would be okay with it, and accept it as normal
Number two, a guy should realize that this it is normal to bleed on a girl's first time, and he shouldn't care anyways.
Number three most girls don't bleed until 'after' sex, so usually it doesn't get blood on the guy's penis.
namaste answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:46 pm: When two people decide to have sex when it's the first time for one or both of them, it's extremely important that they care deeply about each other and are comfortable with each other. Sex is a very intimate thing. When it's your first time, it's pivotal that you trust your partner completely, because the first time can be painful and awkward. If you and your partner trust and respect each other, he shouldn't be disgusted when you bleed. It's normal; it happens to everyone. [ namaste's advice column | Ask namaste A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:46 pm: If a guy gets grossed out then he shouldn't be having sex. Seriously, it's expected from virgins (unless you've already broken your hymen) so no, they don't get disgusted. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Melody answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:44 pm: It depends on the guy. Some guys get grossed out when a girl gets wet, so of course some are going to get grossed out when you bleed.
The majority of guys probably won't care though. My boyfriend doesn't. As long as a guy is having sex, anything else is completely irrelevant at that point in time. For his sake and to save your embarrasment, lay a towel down and make him wear a condom (even if you usually don't). That way blood won't actually get on his penis, so he'll most likely be relieved by that. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
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