Hey There! Im Nikki, a 14 year old Aries, who just wants 2 make life a little better 4 everyone!:P
We've all got our ups and downs, but what helps me stay positive and fun, is 2 not let the negitive bother u, stay positive and always remeber im always up 4 any questions! :)
And yeah, yeah i know what your thinking... "Oh yeah, its easy for you to stay positive and energetic! But i got my problems too!"
Well, the truth is i know, how difficult it is. But when u have good advice from either me or any one else on this site, and good mates you can get through this situation you're stuck in, in no time.
Love, Nikki
xoxo
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Hello, I'm not exactly worried but I'd like reassurance. About 2 months ago I had sex for the first time. We didn't finish, but no pain and no blood.
Today we had sex again but didn't finish but still no pain and no blood. But later in the evening he was fingering me with several fingers rather deep and all of a sudden he says "oh man, that can't be good" and I look down and I'm bleeding a lot! Like, it was all over his hand and when I urinated it was in the urine, like a period. But it definatly isn't period. It isn't bleeding into my underwear anymore but when I use the bathroom I still wipe away blood. Is this normal? It spooked me to see that much blood.
I'm 15, and at boarding school. I know my parents would be furious if they knew I've done stuff like this so there's no real way for me to get help if there is a problem.
Is everything normal?
And another thing, he didn't come, but I'm sure he precame. We used a condom and all. And he blew into it after and it held the air. So, it didn't break and there's no way I got pregnant....right???
I need advice, please. (link)
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Your cherry popped! Well most likely.. when you have sex, and his penis or in your case- his finger (lol) goes REALLY deep into your vagina it starts to bleed. Dont worry about it, it happens to alot of people.
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my cousin traci and i are always getting into fist fights and she usually hits me first for no reason like today she played a trick on me and i told her mom my other cousin and she got mad at me so she hit me and bit me and i fought back in self defense How can i stop my cousin and i from getting into fist fights all of the time?
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She sounds like shes pretty violent! And you shouldnt be the victim of it.
So next time so hurts you, tell her straight up that shes causing you pain and trouble. And tell her if she doesnt stop, say you'll tell everybody in the family that shes a bully. (She's bound to get scared then) and you could also tell her shes acting like shes an annoying little girl and shes being immature. lol
good luck
-Toxic xox
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I wanna make my boyfriend something for Valentines Day.
I found out he is proposing then, and I really want to get him something nice, and from the heart.
So far, I've got him a feather rose, card, and DVD player. ("VERY" romantic...I know) So, what can I get him thats really romantic and from the heart. Something hand made maybe?
Any websites and/or suggestions would be nice.
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Aw! Thats sweet!
Oh! I got a good one, since you bought him a DVD player, maybe you should make him a special DVD message just for him!
Like you could videotape yourself saying how much you love him and how you feel about him. and add in some of the good times you've had with him.
Have fun!
-Toxic xox
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I like this guy at school but the problem is he's black and my granny is really prejudiced and he asked me out and i said yes so we are going out but my entire family wants me to break up with him just becouse of the color of his skin what should i do? (link)
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Stand up for yourself! Who cares what your raciest family thinks? They cant do anything about it, tell them you're the only decent one in the family that isnt prejudice against black people!
Ps- I really admire the fact that you dont care about the the colour of his skin.
-Toxic xox
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My school's valentines dance is coming up and I asked this guy I like if he would go with me. He told me that I was the 4th girl to invite him and he'd get back to me cuz he hadn't decided yet and he wanted to see how many girls would ask him. I aske dwho the other 3 were and he said he never gave names. I know this is a lie because when I asked him to the last gc dance he told me who was taking him. Do you think he was lying to make me jealous or to give him an easy out if someone else did ask him? (link)
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What i think is he's trying to weasel his way out of going to the dance with you. But you never know! So maybe you should ask around and see if he was really telling the truth.
Good luck
-Toxic xox
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Is O.K. if I have a medium/light flow and I use a super tampon to last me all day? From say 7:00 in the morning to about 9:00 at night? I've been forced to do this before and the whole thing wasn't even soaked yet...
Is it O.K.? (link)
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I dont think you should leave it in all day. You might catch something, and it might start to smell too.
-Toxic xox
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why are some breasts bigger than others, what part of it grows? why do others grow bigger than others?
does anyone know.
p.s. yes im flat chested (link)
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LOL weird, but good question...
some people's breats are bigger than others because of their backround, or size, or the obvious one- they havent reach puberty yet. Dont worry, im sure you'll get breats eventually...
lol as long as you stay positive and not get all obsessed with having them like my little cousin does.. LMAO
-Toxic xox
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OK so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a while now and hes never made a move on me. Eh I dont know if should feel bad about this but I kinda want him to already. He is very lovey dubby and love is great and all but jeez and need a little lust every now and then too you know? Anyway any advice on how i can maybe lead him on to making a move, because i would never make the 1st move. so please help. (link)
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Lol he's probaly nervous or something, or he might think you dont want him to make a move on you. Who knows?
Drop a hint, like if you want him to kiss you just stare at his lips, and look flirty while you're doing it. Maybe bite your bottom lip gently or something to give him a wake up call!
Good luck, nikki xox
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13 female.
I have at least six guys that are in love with me. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I'm like in over my head. They all always ask me out and call me and ask me to come over and stuff.
What to I do to slow it down!?
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Get to know them, and you might really like one of them. If you dont, theres plenty of other fish in the sea. lol
Tell them you dont like them that way, and if that doesnt work... try and set them up with somebody else.
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ok, so me and my boyfriend have been talking about having sex. I just wanted to know, should i shave down there before we do it?? if so what should i use, or should i not shave down there at all.. or would that be really wierd..
any help will do ! Thx!! (link)
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Lol i honestly think you should shave coz i dont think he would really like sticking it in wen its all hairy...
or maybe you should wax and leave a little stuble there to remind him that you waxed your pubes just for him!
lol have fun!
nikki xox
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Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP
JANE (link)
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lol that reminds me of my year 7 play... i was 2nd lead role, but i was really nervous and stuffed up in the middle of the play. So i just laughed it off, and surprisingly, almost everyone else in the cast mucked up their lines for the rest of the act!
Sure, the audience laughed, but the play was originaly boring anyway.
So just try you're best, and dont picture everyone in their underwear... coz it doesnt work! (in my case)Or you could pretend the audience wasnt there.
Best of luck!
-Nikki xox
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okay umm last night was homecoming and after homecoming the high school always puts on a dance that lasts till like, 1 in the morning. well, since it was so late i stayed at a friends house so my parents wouldn't have to come pick me up that late/early (whatever way you wanna look at it) because we live out of town. well my friends cousin just happens to be my bf and we (me and my bf) snuck out of my friends house and had sex. well it was my first time and all, and i heard it was supposed to hurt, but it didnt except a little at first. and ive heard about women having 'multiple orgasms'....is it normal to have like, 8? cuz umm thats what happened so what exactly does that mean? (link)
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Lol! Thats a good thing! It means you were definately ready & comfortable with him (Thats probaly why it didnt hurt as bad) and the multiple orgasms meant he pleasured you alot! ;P
-Nikki xox
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my uncle did something that i thought i could never forgive him for and well i said i hated him and a while back he tried to say hello and i ignored him, now i just found out he has possible bone cancer and well i feel so bad, like i dont want to hate him but i cant forget what he's done. i feel like the worst person in the world because he's still the man i grew up with inside and i still kinda love him but i dunno, all i know is i dont want him to die. am i a terrible person (link)
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wow this is a tough one, but no, you're not a terrible person. In fact, you're a caring person because it sounds like you really do care about your uncle.
Why dont you go to him next time, and just tell him whatever he did to you really hurt you, but you're willing to forgive and let it all past you. Tell him how you really feel and tell him you really do care about him & dont want him to die.
Best wishes,
Nikki xox
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do guys like get disgusted when you bleed when you have sex for the first time? i mean doesnt that get blood on there "parts" and stuff?
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Depends on the guy your doing it with, if they were the right guy, they would totally understand.
Anyhoo, you would usualy bleed a day or so after you've had sex.
-Nikki xox
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading (link)
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A tight butt, great body and good looking... what more could a girl ask for?! lmao
-nikki xox
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k well. me and my boyfriend recently broke up. i felt no physical attraction to him and he really didnt have a romantic side? how do i set those aside to be with him and how can i change those so he does? (link)
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well the truth is... you really can't change a person. its up to themselves to change. Besides, if u had no physical attraction to him, why do u want to change him in the first place?
Go find another guy to be with, theres plenty more singles out there. :P
Good luck,
Nikki xox
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how do you know when you like someone enough to actually have sex with them (link)
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well theres a differnce between love/like and lust.
but usually u start do get all horny, and want to do some sexual things to them. thats when you know you want to have sex with them.
Love, Nikki
xox
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I don't feel safe at my school.
Like, yesterday, I left my binder in a class in a basket under the seat. I come back today and it is totally ALL written on, every single page [which is like 100 pages]. It says "Dum ho", "slut", "sell out", "I HATE YOU B@#!@! :D" all this unprintable stuff.
and, today in 5th period, i get a pass to go to the bathroom and when I walk outside, the guys that love to torment me start making fun of me.
HIM:"HEY IT'S UGLY GIRL!!! GODDMMT! Why are you so ugly!!?!?"
ME:"I'm not ugly. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!"
HIM: *he gets 4 inches close to my face* "Why should we?"
ME: "Well, if you think I'm so ugly, why don't you just leave so you don't have to look at me?"
and the night before, i bit my lip really hard and it swelled up on the bottom lip.
HIM: "HEY WHATS ON YOUR LIP?"
ME: "Its-"
HIM: "-EWWW IS THAT HERPES!!?!? OH MY GOD IT'S HERPES!!!"
now they wait for me at the doors they know i'm going through so they can torment me.
i don't feel safe.
i don't want to go to the bathroom or go outside of class, or even switch classes!
i'm constantly looking out for people that hate me.
what do i do? :\
please help soon.
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:o Sounds like its torment for you at school eh? and thats not fair, schools should make you feel safe, and comfortable.
so i thought about your question, and it sounds like the guys wont leave you alone. Wheather you try and stand up for yourself or not.
so you should definately tell a teacher ASAP.
You should also find yourself a friend to walk with you to your next class. The more friends the better, bullies never like teasing the one person in front of a big group.
Good luck, Nikki xox
PS- If the teachers are no use, you should ask the principal for some help.
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