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Hymen and amount of blood and condom question Hello, I'm not exactly worried but I'd like reassurance. About 2 months ago I had sex for the first time. We didn't finish, but no pain and no blood.
Today we had sex again but didn't finish but still no pain and no blood. But later in the evening he was fingering me with several fingers rather deep and all of a sudden he says "oh man, that can't be good" and I look down and I'm bleeding a lot! Like, it was all over his hand and when I urinated it was in the urine, like a period. But it definatly isn't period. It isn't bleeding into my underwear anymore but when I use the bathroom I still wipe away blood. Is this normal? It spooked me to see that much blood.
I'm 15, and at boarding school. I know my parents would be furious if they knew I've done stuff like this so there's no real way for me to get help if there is a problem.
Is everything normal?
And another thing, he didn't come, but I'm sure he precame. We used a condom and all. And he blew into it after and it held the air. So, it didn't break and there's no way I got pregnant....right???
I need advice, please.
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Your cherry popped! Well most likely.. when you have sex, and his penis or in your case- his finger (lol) goes REALLY deep into your vagina it starts to bleed. Dont worry about it, it happens to alot of people. ]
your cherry probably popped, if he went deeper than ever before. some people bleed alot, some people bleed a little, it just depends on you, nothing to be worried about. And also, its normal to be a little bit paranoid about it your first time, but it sounds like your fine. so don't worry, cause worrying too much about it can give you symptoms of pregnatecy. if the bleeding doesn't stop within a few day i would tell your nurse or an older friend. Good luck! hope i helped. ]
Ok for starters, if you used a condom then you should be good to go. and from the sounds of it everything is normal. You can bleed a little or alot it depends on your body and it can go on for days and even the first couple times you have sex it could bleed so dont be so worried. ]
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