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Question Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 2:35 am

ok so im going to have sex with my boyfriend. we tried last Saturday but it hurt bad and well, it just didnt fully happen (like everything is still in tact). im just wondering when i do do it, and if i bleed alot, how do i take care of that? i mean, i dont want to do it on my bed if im bleeding 'cause everyone knows thats a pain to wash out and i dont want to do it on the floor like we were doing so what do i do after? does it stop bleeding after a while? how long after? help people, asap

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Melody answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 8:30 pm:
It didn't fully happen because you weren't relaxed and lubricated enough. Either get wet, or buy some KY Jelly. If you aren't lubricated, sex is damn near impossible. Trust me.

It won't bleed much at all. The most you will get is a little stain in your underwear once you put them back on. Unless he just rips you to pieces, which I doubt will be the case, you shouldn't have to worry about the bleeding. A towel isn't even really neccessary. Just make sure to go to the bathroom right afterwards. And you can do it on the bed, it will be much more comfortable.

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kaylasaysso answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 9:47 pm:
you can do it on your bed hun. just put a towel underneath you & wash it right when your done. i didn't bleed my first time.. but i can't imagine that it would be a lot. but if you do bleed just wear a tampon or pad until it stops.

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x0advice4y3w answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 9:28 pm:
well first of all make sure you're completly ready to have sex with this guy. ;) it's better to make the first time special. and yeah you should put some towels down or something, but it's also common for people to bleed after sex (day after, hours.) so if it doesn't bleed during/exactly after don't get worried. ACTUALLY i didn't even bleed at all, and i'm popped..so that could possibly happen? i hope i helped?! ;)

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vomski10 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 2:57 pm:
yeah you should make sure your ready. you could put towels down or something because then it won't go on the bed or floor. or um you could do it on tiles so you can just get some water and it depends on how much your hymen is stretched. because it might be just a little so it will bleed more than if it's almost broken. hope i helped


make sure you use condoms =)

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twistedlover69 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 2:40 pm:
ok well first make sure that your ready and if you really want to do than just change your sheets you know get ride of the evidence and you dont always bleed there are some people that i know who lost there virginty and didnt bleed cause you dont always break your hymen during sex

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