Well. If she has bullemia there is really nothing that you can do considering its a disease/disorder. When people are bullemic, as I'm sure you already know, they throw up their food after eating. They go on binge eating spree's, and then throw up afterwords so they dont "eat the calories". After a while of doing it, it becomes voluntary. Meaning, they dont do it intentionally. Their body will be so used to throwing up food that everytime they put something in their mouth and swallow, it will trigger something inside them to throw it back up again. If she just recently started doing this, caution her that it can ruin her digestive system, and her throat. It can deteriorate her throat as if she has cancer, and will make her teeth stained yellow and possibly fall out. The bile and stomach acids in our stomach are in fact ACIDS. They will eat away at things if theyre in contact with them frequently, which is why they need to stay inside our stomach, since the lining protects them from getting out. Just warn her of what can happen and encourage her to talk to someone, or anyone that she can trust with that type of information. If shes in the early stages, she can get better, but if its worse than your mentioning up there, and she throws up automatically without trying then you need to tell a parent or counselor and get her into a hospital for medical treatment because it can get even more serious.

My best advice would be to just be yourself. If your ditzy then be ditzy. If you're really smart t hen be really smart. Just be who you would around anyone else, and if he likes that then hes worth it. If you try to impress him the first day, he'll expect that all the time, and you're bound to slip up sometime, you know? So dont confuse him by being somewhat fake the first time you guys actually talk. Just be real with him, and I'm sure he'll find you to be wonderful =]

Ahhh. This question is perfect for me to answer haha. My stomach muscles actually kill right about now, because I did maybe 150-200 situps today, and then some DDR. If you want to lose that "fat", then you'll have to tone your stomach. Do some situps. They really work the lower abdomen. Then if you want, crunches are good too. Situps, in my opinion, are the best for that sort of thing. It should tone up, though. I cant tell you how long it will be till you see results, because it varies. but do it when you wake up in the morning because it gets your metabolism going =], and then before bed. Those are the times i do it at =]]

There is no general rule for "fat". What some people find fat, others done. There are people who find larger people gorgeous, fat, attractive, not. Then there are people who find someone whos skin and bones either attractive or "fat" (In the eyes of an anorexic) It all depends on whos perspective it is. personally, I think your friend isnt comfortable with how she looks, and doesnt know how to cope with that, or want it to show. Her way of dealing with it would be making a negative statement towards someone who is bigger than her. (not much, but just a decent ammount) In doing this, she will gain some sort oof self esteem because she knows that when shes feeling down she can think, "well.. so and so is bigger than me.. so i dont have much to worry about". Either that or she has the mind of an anorexic and sees people who are small, to be bigger than they really are. I think you and your friend just have different perceptions of beauty. Shes very critical, whereas you dont care either way. People are people, thats how I think of it as.

Hey! My names Roxy. Im 17 years old, and Im from Ohio! I love to shop, hang out with friends, go to the movies, talk on my cell & online. I love love love to sing & dance. Music is deff. my passion. My new obsession is DDR, ahh. Techno DDR = love. I also love giving advice and helping people! Im planning on being a psychologist, and have taken sociology & psychology. My friends also tell me Im really good with things like this. Other than that though Im currently a senior in High school. =). Eek! Graduating soon, Cannot waitt. omgshh. I love doing makeup & hair, Im a girly girl, designer labels are love. ugh i could go on forever haha. New subjectt. I listen to all sorts of music, punk, rap, country etc. Its all amazing, ahh. I'm single, and its definitly by choice. I'm currently in love, and only want to be with that person. Girls, dont worry about not having a boyfriend. You're probably better off without one, you dont need a guy for anything, you can do anything you want on your own! ♥ I'm extremely easy to talk to & really understanding. Im here for everyone, so if anyone has any problems or needs advice, feel free to email or IM me, and I'll do my best to help anyone out ! =) xoxo

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