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boyfriends band
okay. my numba one crush, BFoster, asked me to be in his band, as a background singer, but i have major stagefright. and someone said that he wouldnt be in the band if i am, im sorta the outcast girl.fat,ugly,mean. everybody says i am the product of my infirement, wich is abusive. should i go along with the flow, or just stay out of the situation? please help.!!!
---Simone411---
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okay, so since he asked you to be in his band: do you sincerely want to be in his band, regardless of stage fright (which is possible to overcome, believe me)? if yes, then go ahead and do it! it sounds like a great opportunity for you to hang out with people, make new friends, and have fun. also, never, ever listen to what people say about you. i can say for a fact that if you're hearing people call you "outcast, fat, ugly, mean" then you are definitely not that at all. the only reason people would say cruel things like that to other people is when there is a self-esteem issue with the person who is saying the mean things. also, when you label yourself as an outcast, you make yourself an outcast. if you want to be an outcast, that is fine, but if you hate it, there are things you can do to fix that without changing your entire look or personality. if people are telling you that you are mean, then try being nicer. if people are telling you that you are unattractive or cruel or something, try smiling a lot more. okay, that is probably not part of your question. so i will keep going with the flow here. it sounds like you think that you two have a lot in common, so why not join his band and hang out with him? also, about the stage fright: do you have a literal stage fright on just stages and performing in front of a lot of people, or just a fear of singing in front of anybody? because if it's a fear of singing in front of anybody, it might be difficult for you at first with this band thing. but it's something that you can work through. i certainly know a lot about that because i've had a lot of performances over the years (i play a lot of instruments). so if you ever have a question about performing arts, send one to my inbox. if i were you, jump right into the situation!
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If people are tell you things different from what he is, and you don't know what to believe, then your best bet would be to stay out of the situation.
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