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prude
ill be 15 in a week and im with this guy and im kinda prude. i dont really no how to not be prude like i just feel akward soometimes when he like feels me up and stuff. and his friend asked me today why i went to his house last nite and no one was there and we didnt do n e thing then he called me prude. i feel so akward now. and idk what he ment by doing nothing but we couldnt have sex or n e thing cuz im on my period but he doesnt no that. ahhhhh this suckss. i would appricate some advicee =]
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Well i think if your not comfortable with him to do those kinds of things, you shouldnt do those kinds of things. You should share your first time with someone who you feel completely comfortable with. You'll know when your ready, dont rush it!
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Okay well your still young an it does seem to me that you want to do stuff but you just feel awkward getting comfortable and letting him see your body or even touch you. When my boyfriend and I first got together I didn't understand alot I was no where near expierenced because the sheltered life I was used to. You don't have to have sex with him RIGHT now unless you feel comfortable an you seem like you dont by the way you took time out to write it all out online. But what I would do is let the relationship progress an the longer yall date the more comfortable you will be around him an stuff will get better :)
-Stephanie
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well first off its not bad to be prude. it just means that you dont want to be doing nasty things like that. Second if you feel akward tell him. because if you keep letting him do it then its giveing him the wrong idea that you might want to do anymore.
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I am not trying to sound all momish or anything, but you will know when you are ready. This is not something you can do to just get it over with and hope for the best. This is something that you have to do with your head, and not your heart or embarassment.
As for last night, tell him that there were reasons beyond your control and in the hands of Mother Nature interfering with your ability to take things further last night. If he doesn't understand that, just tell him it was a female thing. He should understand that. Also, this may help him comprehend why things didn't escalate any further, and make him back off on the name calling.
Ok, going to go all momish again. Do you really want to lose your virginity to someone who pressures you and calls you names? I would think you would want to be with someone that makes you happy and completes you as a person, not belittles you. Remember you have the right to be A) treated with respect and B) move at the pace that is comfortable for you. If the person you are with doesn't understand that, then maybe he is not the right one for you.
Happy "soul searching" to you!
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