Hey guys im Lisa
Uhm. I think im pretty good at giving advice.
I want to be a psychiatrist when i grow up so, i suppose i should be good at this.
Im a freshmen, i live in Texas, and I like giving advice on love or friendships.
Gender: Female
Location: TX
Occupation: I play with crayons
Age: 15
Member Since: August 17, 2007
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Well for the past year i feel as if i put about 85% of the effort in me and my boyfriends relationship. Now he is a good boyfriend but its just the way i feel. Well i let my jelousy get in the way of our relationship ( so he says .) And he broke up with me monday night , But tuesday he told me how big of a mistake he made and he was truly sorry , he loved me with all his heart etc. But i want him to ( need me now ) . This whole year it was like he was my " Life support ". And when he had broken up with me my heart was broken and i mean broken . And i realized it wasnt healthy to be where i have to depend on a guy. I love him so much but this time around id like to turn the tables , ya know ? I took my moms advice ( not to call , text him etc. but to let him do all the calling ) and it worked , yesterday i only called one time and he called me 3 or 4 times , when usualy its me caling like every 10 mins . its hard but it makes me feel as if im not the " damsal in destress " . But how do i get him to be more ( on me , than me on him ) if that makes sence . I dont call him , he calls me ... What else . i want him to cator to me now . I love this boy , hes a major part in my life . This sunday will be our year . Advice please & no stupid stuff please . thanks :) (link)
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Well it sounds like this is a major part of your life; but maybe it doesnt need to be. If you really want him to cator to you you shouldnt think about this so much. Get out there and hang out with friends. If he really needs you in his life, like you do him, he'll chase you. Let him show you that he loves you, not just tell you.
+ Actions speak louder than words
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Ask me out already!!
I thinks he's shy with me. (He's pretty popular too. Got the ladies screaming! Hahaha.)
I think he's intimidated. ALL his friends and my friends tell me how much he likes me...
I'm pretty well known, a lot of guys like me, but I only like him & he knows that. Maybe its because I'm older than him. We've been talking/liking each other for a MONTH. Omg he's even gotten mad when he saw me eat lunch with this guy. Well gawsh hurry!
So tomorrow..... I'm going to talk to him about it! I've got the courage now! Yay! What are some good things to say? So far I have:
What's up with me & you?
You said when we get to know each other more we can go out.... well its been a month!
What else?
Thaaaaanx! =] (link)
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Welll i would say when you talk to him, dont attack him. He might get even more intimidated by you. Just tell him how you feel, and if he does feel the same way back he'll eventually do it.
Hope i helped!
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ill be 15 in a week and im with this guy and im kinda prude. i dont really no how to not be prude like i just feel akward soometimes when he like feels me up and stuff. and his friend asked me today why i went to his house last nite and no one was there and we didnt do n e thing then he called me prude. i feel so akward now. and idk what he ment by doing nothing but we couldnt have sex or n e thing cuz im on my period but he doesnt no that. ahhhhh this suckss. i would appricate some advicee =] (link)
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Well i think if your not comfortable with him to do those kinds of things, you shouldnt do those kinds of things. You should share your first time with someone who you feel completely comfortable with. You'll know when your ready, dont rush it!
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im writing my bf a poem about how much i love him and i will miss him when i move and that i wont forget him but i CANT figure out how to start it!! there is so much i want to say but i cant get it to go nicely when i try and write it out please help me!! (link)
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Maybe, if your having too hard of a time writing the poem yourself, you should get a poem off the internet. Their is this one quote from the movie "The Notebook", its says that everyday is not going to be easy but he doesnt want it to be, because if he wants to spend the rest of his life with her, he wants all of her. So i think you can just google that up.
Good luck on your poem!
(ps. if you love him that much, maybe you just need to let him know how much you love him. and, actions speak louder than words)
xxx
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This takes a little explaining.. High school drama stinks..
I had this really great guy friend, we'll call him David, and one day in October 2006 I realized that I felt more than friendship for him. I was totally in love with him. I told him on New Year's Eve and it really seemed like he had the same feelings and we started hanging out and stuff and we were pretty much "unofficially" going out. Another girl at school, we'll call Brook, who has a very bad reputation and is not not to be mean but is not at all attractive, liked him a lot as well. I found out on Valentine's Day last year that they were officially going out. I was crushed and depressed. David and I were no longer friends and she rubbed it in my face that she got him and I didn't. They dated, but never communicated at all, they only text messaged, nothing else, until right after school started back this year and she broke up with him for another guy I liked, we'll call Pablo. She started dating him, so David and I had slowly gotten our friendship back and he fell for me. I made sure he had no feelings for Brook, and he assured me he didn't. We started going out and had an amazing relationship. We spent all our free time togther and fell in love so fast. It was amazing and we both loved each other so much and had even talked seriously about a future.. All in the six weeks we went out.. One morning he said "we need to talk" and he took me in the hall at school and he had realized that he was still in love with Brook and he had just used me to make her jealous. He had called her the night before and told her and she was breaking up with Pablo the same day. The next day David and Brooke were back together. Me, David, and Pablo are all Christians. David has put on a huge front and is being extremely immature about everything, and his whole life has turned into an act. He could be an absolutely amazing person, but has made some horrible descisions and gotten caught up with Brook. I think they're having sex as well. David always wanted more from me, but I never realized that. I'm still kinda friends with David because I'm still in love with him. Does anybody have any advice whatsoever for this? I love David and it's killing me to see him throw himself away like this. He always has the most sad and lost look in his eyes, and he's completely lost. I want to do anything I can to help him, but I really don't know what to do. I kinda also still have feelings for Pablo and things between us might work out soon. Any advice whatsoever would help! My life is so messed up and I really need some advice on helping it get back on track. I'm spending tons of time in prayer for everybody in this situation, and I just need direction.
Thank you so much! (link)
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Weellll. Haha seems like you've got yourself into a dilemna. I think that you should really take time off from liking anybody. Just figure out what YOU need right now. After all, if David wants to go and ruin his life thats whats hes going to do. But if you really feel the need to talk to David, tell him about what all your feeling. Tell him that you want him to be happy.
+ And i think that if you really want David to be happy, you should want him to whether it involves you in his life or not. The biggest act of love is sacrifice.
I hope i helped! =]
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Ok, I don't know if I am depressed or not...
I am tiredd all the timee
I eat all the time, but never put on weight
And I have periods of eating all the time, and then not eating like at all
I have two horses, and they used to be everything, and now they aren't
I have cut myself before, and think about it all the time, but haven't in about 5 months
I have had many suicidal thoughts...and think about it every day, almost like planning
This is lamee but, I went online and took about 6-7 tests, and they all said that I have moderate to sever depression
And I don't know...
It might also help to know that I don't talk about my feelings, keeping them all inside.
All advice is welcomed =] (link)
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I think you should talk to your parents about it and get professional help. You really need to let your feelings out
Hope you get better! =D
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14/f. ok so i have this best guy friend who have a crush on. and he really likes me too. well the other day we started talking but little did i know he's talking to this girl i hate. and it makes me mad b/c he's always saying ily and callingme bby and other stuff...but yet he's doing it o her too.
and on his tops on myspace she's 4th i'm no where on there. i wa son his headline for one day. i wonna say i don't like him anymore and call it off but i like him too much and what if that distroys our friendship?
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Do you think if he really liked you he would be telling the other girl, the same things he tells you? If you want to solve the problem you need to talk to him about it. And myspace
'top' friends, dont mean anything. You shouldnt take it that seriously
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