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nothing ever works out
for a very long time nothing boy wise was going my way i would start talking to a boy then as soon as i started liking him something would happen and we would stop talking like that well last weekend i was hanging at my friends cousins house and we really clicked and we kissed so i thought that things were finally working out for me but he hasnt called. i honestly dont know what else to do. i feel like theres something wrong with me but i dont know what to think anymore. any comments/advice>!>
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Well honestly if a guy isn't calling you after yall kissed give him the cold shoulder if you act like you DONT care than somehow guys find that attractive. I mean I have no clue why boys like that but I am that way an it happens to just get them all the time. But that's my best advice don't let it bother you but be shady toward him if he is going to act that way toward you an don't let him show you it gets to you because in some cases that's what guys want.
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The unfortunate problem with guys at this age, and I am assuming teen age, is they are more concerned with themselves than finding that one true love. Most teen aged boys are more concerned with school, sports, school activities, friends, hanging out, and unfortunately sex. I am not saying all are like this, but a majority are.
It could be that you are attracted to the wrong type of boy, and this makes it more complicated for you. This will also destroy your self-esteem and make you doubt your appeal to turn on the opposite sex.
I would suggest finding someone that you are comfortable with and start as friends. If things take a turn for the worse, your heart wasn't attached and you can feel good that you weren't turned down as a potential love interest. If things start to take a turn for the better, then you know you have found someone that you are friends with first and the connection is already there.
One thing to keep in mind, don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Also, don't let them know that they got the best of you. If you play it off so it looks as if you weren't affected by their actions, chances are they will become more intrigued.
Happy "better times" to you!!
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so im sure by now you've realized that guys are jerks and could really care less how badly they hurt us... i think you need to stop worrying them...just let whatever happens happen... i felt that way too for along time and whenever a guy was interested in me i would cling to them and do anything for them and then it would end or whatever...so i just took a break, stopped looking...and love found me... if a guy doesnt call you back or whatever dont look at it as your fault, but as his, i mean its his loss... and stop worrying about it...just go with the flow and stop hooking up with random guys even though they may make you believe they are interested in you, they probably just want to get some...the guy you know deserves is the one that will be okay with not kissing you the first time you hang out and he'll still call you the next day... you'll find him, he's out there... until then just be patient and dont rush into things just because you WANT a boyfriend
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