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lonley
well im 17 and i like boys you can say im a little boy crazy and i have had boyfriends in the past but at my school there are alot of couples and i get all sad when i see cute couples walking in school when ever i see them hold hands i get sad whenever i see the couples kiss or play around i get all sad and i start to feel lonley i dont know what to do i mean im not ugly you know and im pretty nice... how do i get a boyfriend? if thats not the right think to do then what do i do to not feel lonley but still have a guy without him being my boyfriend and if then how do i just get my mind of boys???? :) any advice?
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Have you ever heard that expression, "the grass is always greener on the other side"? I have this problem sometimes too. I always get wrapped up in the what-ifs. See, I am married, have been for 6 years now. However, sometimes I let my mind wander off and think what would it be like to be single again. It is always that nagging feeling of could my life be different if I were to do this instead of this. Let me tell you what I have learned, I am right were I am suppose to be, because God leads us down the path that we are suppose to be on. It is up to us, to take that path and make the best of it.
If you are set on wanting to find a boyfriend, find someone that you wouldn't mind being friends with first. At least this way, it takes the pressure off of finding a boyfriend and not being yourself. You should never feel lonely, just think "hey, I am alive, healthy, and free to make my own decisions." Once you realize that you are perfect for who you are, and not disabled because of what you are not, you will feel comfortable with yourself and start to develop healthy relationships.
Happy "blissfullness" to you!
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Be Patient, Good things come to those who WAIT :)
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