Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:44 pm
my boyfriend has been bringing me down ALOT lately. all he ever talks about is how much it sucks that hes gonna lose me someday..and the other day he was like "youre gonna fall in love with someone else and i cant do anything to change it" and no matter what i said he kept going ON AND ON about it! nonstop!! then last night i called him and he told me that he was talking to ex girlfriend (shes really slutty) about when hes coming to visit and she wants to meet up with him. i didnt wanna hear that at all. then he said "YOU DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE!im such a bad boyfriend and no one likes me!" which he knows isnt true. before we hung up i said i love you like i always do, but he didnt say it back..he said "k".
well today he apoligized..and today all hes been saying is how much he loves me and how awesome i am which is obviously to make up for last night.
what should i do? does anyone have any idea whats up with him?? thanks!
OHilovetravis answered Thursday September 14 2006, 6:31 pm: Hey Hun, I would definetly dump this boy. He seems like he is not totally devoted to you especially if he has to rely on his EX girlfriend to keep him entertained on the phone. I mean lord what do they talk about. It's obvious that any girl who talks to their ex boyfriend will always bring up how much they miss them EXSPECIALLY when they are single because some girls act like their hearts are bigger then the dagum two twin towers an it's ridiculous but true. I would definetly dump him tell him your not comfortable with him talking to his EX girlfriend an you totally disagree that it is okay because it isnt under any circumstances. Then tell him your just tired of being treated with disrespect all the time. And tell him if he loves you he wouldnt ever treat you that way an he would devote his time with YOU not talking to his EX girlfriend on the phone!! Hope I helped.
adviceforlife answered Thursday September 14 2006, 6:00 pm: My advice: dump him. Simple as that. He's more than likely cheating on you, that, or he wants you to break up with him. He's probably planning on hooking up with her anyways. So... leave him. The next time he says something rude, say, "your right, I don't like you, it's over." Well.. that's what I would say. Good luck. [ adviceforlife's advice column | Ask adviceforlife A Question ]
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