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hey im 15/f. so theres this guy i have liked for a really long time. we'll call him george we always seem to flirt and have a good time. i had one of my guy friends see if he liked me because i really want to go out with him. he does like me which i was totally thrilled by. he hasn't had a girlfriend like at all this year, and he said the reason why is because he doesn't know how to "treat" a girl right, and he like doesn't know what to do. he just doesn't want one. i dont want to pressure him into going out with me but we both like each other so why cant we be together?? i can teach him.. haha plezz give me some advice on how to show him like that i care more, and i really like him i try to flirt, but is there any way i can like really "real" him in. make him want me...? i'll rate 5 for good answers!! thanks
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I think you should tell him how you feel. Tell him that you want to go out with him. Maybe if he knows how you feel, he might start dating again. He is probably really depressed because he hasn't had a girlfriend in quite awhile. He might be scared if he asks a girl out, he will get rejected. We all are scared of that. But since he has this problem, it's up to you to take the initiative and tell the guy how you feel. If he STILL doesn't want to go out with you, then it's his fault, not yours. You did everything you could, he just needs to decide if he wants to go out with you or stay miserable for the rest of his life. Don't give up. He could be the one.
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old female and iam babysitting this 15 year old kid with autisim from 10:00pm to 2:30 am in the morning How can I keep this kid occupied for that long since I have no exsperince with babysitting autistic kids? (link)
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Dear Rachel,
Babysitting a 15 year old shouldn't be so hard since that kid is also a teenager. I'm sure the kid will find things to do or just go to sleep. That's what most people do during that time.
Tina
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when i'm with a group of people, i get really shy and i never know what to say. when i'm around just a few people i'm really loud & outgoing. like tonight, after my soccer game we went out to dinner with the team. everyone was laughing and screaming, but i was really shy and not "hyper" as they called it. and those kids are my friends so it's not because i didnt know them. i tried speaking up and being outgoing, but the more i tried to like fit in, the shyer i got. it was so weird. but then again, in school the teachers all yell at me because i never shut up. how come i'm shy around certain people but REALLY loud others? oh, and don't say i don't feel comfortable around them because i do. and how do i step out of my shy zone and become outgoing (to the people i'm shy with.) what are some things to bring up in a conversation and stuff? i really dount know why im like this.
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Dear confused,
I also have been there so you are not the only one who went through this. I too feel more hyper and comfortable around certain people but when I'm with other people I feel awkward. This has happened to me for a long time, but then I didn't care anymore. When I started loosiing up and not caring, I fitted in more. And I think that goes for any situation like yours. Don't try to fit in so much. Just relax. And after a long time, if you still don't feel comfortable with them, that means that they aren't really good friends. But then again, feeling comfortable with other people takes time. So just give it some time and if things are still the same after a couple of months, then it's time to move on with other friends.
sign,
Tina
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