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so theres this guy...
hey im 15/f. so theres this guy i have liked for a really long time. we'll call him george we always seem to flirt and have a good time. i had one of my guy friends see if he liked me because i really want to go out with him. he does like me which i was totally thrilled by. he hasn't had a girlfriend like at all this year, and he said the reason why is because he doesn't know how to "treat" a girl right, and he like doesn't know what to do. he just doesn't want one. i dont want to pressure him into going out with me but we both like each other so why cant we be together?? i can teach him.. haha plezz give me some advice on how to show him like that i care more, and i really like him i try to flirt, but is there any way i can like really "real" him in. make him want me...? i'll rate 5 for good answers!! thanks
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I think you should tell him how you feel. Tell him that you want to go out with him. Maybe if he knows how you feel, he might start dating again. He is probably really depressed because he hasn't had a girlfriend in quite awhile. He might be scared if he asks a girl out, he will get rejected. We all are scared of that. But since he has this problem, it's up to you to take the initiative and tell the guy how you feel. If he STILL doesn't want to go out with you, then it's his fault, not yours. You did everything you could, he just needs to decide if he wants to go out with you or stay miserable for the rest of his life. Don't give up. He could be the one.
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Any guys your age won't know all the answers for treating a girl right, he just needs to jump over his fear of messing up and get in a relationship because that's basically how you learn how to treat a girl.
However, you can't force him into being in a relationship with you. But you can let him know that you don't know a lot about being with a guy either and that it's something you both could learn together because it's true. You don't know a whole lot about love or sex at 15 and it's suppose to be that way. When you get with someone and break up and start over, you learn more about love and the opposite sex.
What I'm saying is that his fears are normal, but you have to wait until he overcomes this fear because he is the only one who can bring himself to overcoming his fears.
-TheTeenGirl
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If he doesn't want a girlfriend don't make him do or start anything he doesn't want to do at the moment. I'd say that you should just make sure your friendship grows strong and in the meantime show him how to treat a girl. YOU maybe be ready for a boyfriend, but he's not and you have to respect that. Just wait it out, love. I'm sure he'll ask you when he's ready.
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Hey Sweetie,
HaHa Boys...Boys...Boys, they are probably more diffucult to figure out than girl's.
You can't techniqually make him "like" you. I mean as he already stated he doesn't know how to treat a girl that kinda mean's he doesn't have the confidence to progress anything with a girl right now, and that may not be the top thing right now he want's or need's!
Best bet is to hang out with him, tell him you don't wanna go an do stuff as a couple but as friends. It is always good to be his friends before pursuing anything to the next level.
Be sure to not bring anything else up about yall being together, because you may...scare him away believe it or not. But who knows if all else fails, then maybe he just isn't ready for a girl figure in his life...
-Stephanie-
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