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hey guys it's been a long time since i have written alot has happend...well i broke up with scott awhile ago it was just too much for me i could'nt handel it he kept getting locked back up and everything..well i have started talking to Timothy he's 18 and we've known each ohter since i was about 8 we have dated on and off forever and he moved and we lost contact with each ohter well he's back and this is the guy i kissed while i was dating scott...well timothy lives about an hour away from columbus and my parents don't approve so we have to sneak around i hate it so much..my parent's dont like him becasue when we were younger he did drungs but he stopped and he's 18 and i'm 16. see i don't think that's a big deal at all. but me and timothy have been talking about getting married and when i'm 18 i'll move in, i love Timothy so much he was my frist real love. he was so many frist's for me, but i still have two more years until i am 18 and i am scared he will get sick of wating around for me and leave and that scares me so much.. i know what i have with him is real and i don't know what to do, i mean its not even just that there is alot of things becasue of our age difference please give me some feedback thanks
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I'm gonna answer this for you. I'm gonna be truthful, and brutally honest from a man's perspective.
You are at a point in your life where even the little decisions you make can really affect and dictate how your life goes for the next...well...really long time.
I really do understand that what you feel for Timothy is real, he most likely feels the same way. I'm not even going to get into the whole "my parents don't like him because of a drug past" thing, because that would take much too long.
I will say though, that you really need to take a step back and look at things. Let me give you a little background...
I'm 23, moved in with a girl right out of high school. I graduated in the top 5% of my class, could've gone to college just about anywhere, and had an altogether bright future.
Everything changed when I moved in with her. Suddenly, everything became a struggle, because everything was about her. My life got put on hold.
I now have no further education and a pretty dismal future. Get the picture?
Age really doesn't matter a whole lot, so don't get hung up on that.
Unfortunately, I think this is one of those times where you really need to think with your head and not your heart. If he loves you as much as we all hope he does, he will understand and wait until you have everything in order. (i.e. an education, career, etc.)
Hope this helps!
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