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i like my ex friends ex boyfriend
My friend, who I used to be best friends with, used to go out with this guy that I like now. They had gone out for 7 months. I talked to him, and told him that I like him, and he said he likes me as well. I went to my friend and asked her what she would do if me and her ex went out, and she said that she probably wouldn't be able to be friends with me anymore. Her ex is still friends with her, and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I kind of feel the same way, but I'm leaning more towards not being her friend anymore anyway because we barely ever get along anymore. I really want to go out with this guy, but I don't know what to do, because I don't want my friend getting hurt, and he doesn't want to hurt her as well. Any suggestions?
-- How would I convince him to not care what she thinks, and just go out with me? she broke up with him anyway, so what's the big deal?
Please help me.
oh and by the way, nothing happened in their relationship anyway, they'd barely talk and hang out, and when they were together at school, they didn't walk together in hallways, they hang out in the morning, but not talk, so the breakup was bound to happen, so much feeling towards each other, really didn't happen. she knew i liked him, if she didn't wanna be jealous she should have stayed with him... happiness of others has to stop just because she would be jealous? .... --- and me and her aint much of friends anymore either, and i know we won't become good friends again so yea... please help me ... give suggestions. .
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if she was really your friend she wouldn't care who you go out with even if it was her ex boyfriend. My friend told me that she liked my boyfriend and wanted to go out with him and i told her to go ahead becasue it didn't really matter anymore becasue I just want her to be happy. If she wanted you to be happy she will let you go out with him. She is just begining self-fish nad doesn't want to see you happy. So go out with him and be happy.
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now dont get mad at me but i think you should go out with her ex. because again if she was a good friend she would understand and not care if u went out with him cuz he is her EX (even though it is against the womens unwritten code of honor to go out with a friends ex within a certain time period) now about the guy i think you should tell him that she should understand since they are both just friends but maybe he has feelings for her still well i gave my best so i hope i helped
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