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pretection
ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes
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USE A CONDOM! ther eis something called "pre cum" that he may not know about.
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NOO.
that's not safe.
i mean it's not an 100% chance you'll get pregnant.
but its way risky.
he might be too late to pull it out.
andd,
you could get pregnant.
that's bad,
haha.
soo,
i would tell him for your saftey,
a condom,
orrrrr he gets nothing.
I think you would be happy with yourself in the future, when you think about having sex for the first time.
it would defenitley be the right choice.
because i'm guessing you're 14?
sooo i'm pretty sure you don't want to get pregnant at your age.
well,
good luck thoughh!
i've had sex,
and i loved it.
condoms don't make much difference.
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well, nothing beats a condom but i will admit that my boyfriend and i have done that. i was in your situation a while ago. he just took it out and i havent gotten pregnant yet. but i still get worried every once in a while. and that's the worst thing. but if you really want, tell him to get a condom or no sex. if he gets mad, then he's not for you.
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well i don't find it very safe.
i grew up always hearing,
"it's better to be safe than sorry."
I would stick with that ^^
Anything could happen.
A little bit of cum could get inside on accident.
i have a feeling you wouldn't want that to happen.
good luck.
i hope your boyfriend understands.
<3
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Ok well i once read in a magazine that a guy can control when he cums, but there before that a guy always Pre-Cums and there is no way for a guy to control that. so please use a condom. better be safe then sorry.
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Please dont be stupid! Use a condom! Pulling out doesnt always work!
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omg please use a condom. that is another way to be safe. omg i am like typing so hard. im not going to lie please use a condom its for you own good !
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One of my dear friends lost her virginity to a guy who had had sex with others before her. She ended up with an std and a pregnancy scare because she believed him when he said the same thing. Luckily, it was an std that was treatable and she was not pregnant.
The facts regarding pulling out and pregnancy are simple. Most of the semen comes out with ejaculation, and many guys do know when that will happen and can pull out at that time. However, some comes out before, and that can't be predicted. It only takes one sperm to cause pregnancy. In the pre-ejaculate, there are still a lot of the little guys getting out. So, it is still very possible to get pregnant.
Do not have sex with him unless he gets tested for std's. As for the condom thing, you can always get the pill or a diaphram or a female condom. But if you are not making him use a condom, make sure he gets tested first and that you are aware of the possible consequences.
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Of course it's not safe! At the very least you need to use a condom, you really should use a condom plus the PIll.
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Everyone always think that's safe if the guy pulls out, it's not. He doesn't know when exactly to pull out, so even if he did, some of it still could go in you and impregnate you. And plus, if he's been with other girls, he could've gotten something so he might want to get tested before you two decide to do anything. If you guys want to really be safe, I'd suggest using a condom, and if he doesn't want to, then you guys shouldn't have sex. And if you want to be safer, you could go and get birth control. I hope I helped. <3
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It is not safe so you shoudn't do it with out a condom. Unless you want to have children at a young age you should really use a condom.
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This is not safe. You could end up pregnet or with STD's.he doesnt know when to take it out. if he does this u could end up pregnet and lonely.
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It's def. more of a risk. I would use protection even if he says it's ok not to. You don't want to wind up pregnant, and this way you won't have to worry about it as much.
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Dont believe what he says else you'll deffently get pregnant.My boyfriend said the same thing.But I insisted on using a condom.He might have caught something from sleeping around with other girls you never know.So Id advise to stick to the conomds like it or not.If he doesnt respect your decsion then tough.
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Its not safe in SOOO many ways.First of all he did it with another girl and that girl coulda done it with another guy and that guy coulda done it with another gurl and so on.Which obviously means he can have STD's and pass them to you!!You never know if he pulled out on time either!!He can get you pregnant and youll be posting another question on this website saying how stressed you are cuz youre pregnant.Make him wear a condom and take birth control pills if you REALLLLY cant wait.
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No, It's not always effective. You need to get protection. Use a condom if you two have sex, and make sure you are positive you are rady to have sex, do not let him pressure you into it. Remember, it should be a special thing to lose your virginity, and make sure it's with the right guy.
But please please please use protection. If he refuses to, refuse to have sex. Do you want to get pregnant or get an STD? hopefully you answered no to that, so use protection.
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