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how do i tell him what happened to me?
ok all i've asked a q b4 (have a look to see the background to theis q) i have a new b/f- yay go me! but we've only been together a month, i realy like him and i think he likes me back. i'm still scared of commitment and i still get scared when he touches me. and i pull away every time he makes a move. he thinks i don't like him back. how do i tell him bout my rape and what i feel like without making him run away?
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well just tell him all about it if he really likes you he will lay off and understand your problem and why your soo scared.
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I think you should tell him. It could ruin your relationship with and you said it yourself you lilke him him alot. So tell him what happened to you and maybe he will take your relationship slow.
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I know wxactly what your going through. I was raped as well. It's your choice on whether or not you want to tell him or not. If you don't want to don't. I mean, I never told my boyfriends. But to feel more comfortable around him, you could hang around him and his family more often or double date. If you still feel you should tell him, I would take him somewhere where you would be alone with just him and explain it to him. Hope I came of some use.
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