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never had a boyfriend!


Question Posted Tuesday June 13 2006, 12:29 pm

hiya,
well... am 13 n i havn't EVER had a boyfriend! im not tht bad lukin but am sorta big.
Im 13 and i waigh 11 stone! im on a diet atm wich is workin 4 me.. am goin to the gym and so on.
How can i let myself get a boyfriend? any beuty tips or anything.. plus i have bags under my eyes! please help! x


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HardxcorePunkLover answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:38 pm:
I'm 13, I don't have a boyfriend. Having a boyfriend isn't all that. I personally think you have more freedom when you don't have one. Many guys our age aren't interested in having a girlfriend yet, so you have to wait for them to mature a bit. Soon, they will start noticing you & want to ask you out. So don't worry, just give it sometime. Good luck <3
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Cj answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:33 pm:
I don't see your problem. The best Beauty tip I could give is more water and more sleep.

Oh yeah, eating less, and a change in diet helps too, eat more vegetables and less meat.

And thirteen and never had a boyfriend? I met girls 19 that never had a boyfriend. Honestly too.

There is no need to be with a boyfriend either. Especially at your age. It will only lead you to having a whole lot of emotional drama.

And right now, my advice is not as good as usual check. Thats because of the same kind of thing. I am fifteen and I never had a girlfriend before. I found a chic that I really like but now she is in a trip to england. And NOw I am not up to myself. Imagine what pain breaking up must be?

Just relax, no sweat.

The guy friend will come when he does.

I know this advice sucks, but rate it as you find appropriate.

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cathockey38 answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:20 pm:
Hey.
I'm 14 and I've had a few boyfriends, though i usually break up with them because I so enjoy being friends more. You dont want it to be your number 1 proirity to get a boyfriend. Maybe just hang out with some guys that you know and try to get to know them. Dating someone you know a bit is always easier!
And being big is fine. I mean, espically at our age. "Your bodies are changing." Is what I always hear. But I mean, I am 100% Italin and my dad, like 180 6'2 looks soo thin because hes got a wide frame. I got that from you, but it's not like I'm fat, infact, im average.
But if your so into looking prettier, getting more sleep is always good. Also, they sell different types of makup to minimize the bags under your eyes.
Hope this helps!
<Cat>

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 2:07 pm:
Well you cant make yourself get a boyfriend.
Love, and relationships takes time, and you cant force it upon yourself or anyone else for that matter.
You'll get a boyfriend when you are confident and comfortable in yourself, and when the time is right.
Just because you have some imperfections doesnt mean a guy wont like you, because no one is perfect, but trying to make yourself perfect, is just a waste of time, try accepting yourself for who you are, because a guy will really like you for who you are.
And you are only 13 years old, you have a looooonggg time yet.
So dont worry :)

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OHilovetravis answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 2:06 pm:
Honestly 2word's to answer your entire question would be "BE YOURSELF", if boys cannot accept that then they probably couldn't accept the role to be your bf in the first place. Plus your only 13 so it could still be baby fat from when you were a child! But idk thats kinda early to be on a diet but it is a good choice for you if you feel it will help you be happier in life. But believe me ,if you haven't encountered something so amazing as in having a bf then believe me it will happen! Just keep working an striving I swear!

-Stephanie

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yourfoolxx3 answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 2:06 pm:
Being 13 and not having a boyfriend is not a big deal. Although it may seem like everyone has one, if you really look at it, most likely, they don't. And it's good that you're getting yourself in shape, but looks aren't everything. Guys should like you for what's on the inside, and if they don't, they're not worth dating. However, if having a boyfriend is REALLY important to you, then try hanging out wtih guys more often. Find a group, and go to the movies, or swimming. Be yourself, and flirt a little ;). Get their screen name and talk online. The more you get to know them, but better the relationship will be. Hope some of that helped.

--love.love.

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