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Losing Virginity... Maybe regret?
well, I lost my virginity to someone that I knew I wasn't going to have a relationship with yet we were friends and I care about him. Yet he's older than me and doesn't think its a big deal... Anyway to cope with the hurt?
btw.. I'm 15---the guy is 18.
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You're young, you made a mistake and that's part of life. Guys just don't view sex as as big of a deal as girls do. It doesn't really matter how old you are, guys do that at all ages. But as long as you learn from it, it may help you in the long run.
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Thats such a shame guys are such assholes. But maybe talking to him might put your mood up not even about it just talking. But if you want to stay away from him then find an escape. Maybe read books or listen to music to get those feelings away from you. Try to find another guy that you like to distract yourself from reality. I hope one of these works for you good luck. Gosh guys are dicks.
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Most guys are just in it for the sex. To cope with the hurt, try getting counseling. Maybe if you're stressed, you can take a nice calming bath every night before you go to bed and think happier thoughts. It's already happened, and you can't change anything in the past, so you have to just move on and forget about it.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
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well of course you know there is no way to take losing your virginity back and most people regret it because of that or because they dont think about it before they have sex. you may always say that you regreted losing your virginity to that guy as you get older but you'll eventually have to get over that. Most guys dont really care about having sex and just want to use girls for sex(not all of them). To cope with the hurt i think you should just getover it because it is nothing you can change...hope i helped
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i think you should talk to him about this. obviously you never want to have a relationship like that with him. tell him that it was a mistake. i'm sure that will make you feel better.
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