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Why wouldn't he tell me?


Question Posted Monday January 2 2006, 8:37 pm

My best friend and I were going to go to the same college next year since we both got in and it's a good school (UT). Well I was talking to his mom today and college came up and she said that she was sorry that we wouldn't be able to go to the same school. I asked her what she was talking about because the plan was that both of us would go to UT. Well, it turns out that he had changed his mind a few weeks and go and now wants to go to Tx State.


This really upset me becuase I don't know why he didn't tell me about it. I'm not mad that he doesn't want to go to UT. If he thinks Tx State would be a better school for him and he really wants to go there then fine. But why not atleast share that info with me?


I can't believe I had to find out from his mom in a random conversation I had with her. Why do you think he didn't tell me? Should I ask him about it or wait until her brings it up (IF he brings it up)?


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askme10 answered Monday January 2 2006, 9:20 pm:
Well all though you guys are best friedns he might think that if he were to tell you might give him a bad reaction or something.try talking to him and let him know how oyu fell, that you were really upset that he didnt tell you. see what he says!

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orphans answered Monday January 2 2006, 8:56 pm:
It must be a bummer. I'd confront him.
I think theese are reasons why he may not have told you. He was scared to ruin your plans. He maybe though you wouldnt understand. He was waiting for the right time. He was neverous?
I mean i dont know him personally, so i cant tell you exactly.
But good luck in college<3

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BabbiD0LL answered Monday January 2 2006, 8:50 pm:
ii AM A VERY STRAiiGHT FORWARD PERSON ABOUT iT SO ASK HiM, JUST BE LiKE ' WHY DiDNT YOU TELL ME ABOUT CHANGiNG COLLAGE`S? ' ii BET HE WiLL HAVE A GREAT ANSWER ABOUT iT. GOOD LUCK =D

[[&hearts;]] TiFF

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ronda answered Monday January 2 2006, 8:45 pm:
I think he didnt tell you cause yall are best friends and he didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you that he wasnt going to UT.I think you should ask him about it instead of wating untill he tells you(who knows he might not tell you).But I think he didnt want to hurt your feelings by not going to UT.


*Good luck*

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strictlyrouge answered Monday January 2 2006, 8:40 pm:
tell him you know. ask him why he didnt tell you, make sure he knows you arent angry.
he was probably scared how you'd handle it if he told you, give the guy a break. just make sure he knows that he can tell you stuff because youre friends. honesty is a good thing.

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