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I'm too neurotic!
I've started seeing a guy and I have fallen totally head over heels for him. He assures me he feels the same, and as they say, actions speak louder than words and he clearly does love me to bits.
The problem is, that I just can't understand what he sees in me and find myself doubting the relationship all the time, and I can't let myself relax because I'm so sure he'll break my heart. This isn't his problem, it's completely about me, but how can I get over this without ruining the relationship, and without him thinking I am completely neurotic!
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Ohh toughy. I think that you need to find confidence in yourself, girly! Only you can do that, you need to look in the mirror and into your soul and point out all the good qualities to yourself. I'm sure you are wonderful, and he likes everything in you.
You probably should talk to him about you feeling he'll break your heart. So then he can reassure you that he will try not to. (I mean, guys are gonna break your heart. But he might not, if hes that great guy that your saying.)
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You can't fully love someone until you start to love yourself. Your problem is very simple to point out but very complicated to fix. You have low self esteem issues. Now why it's complicated is you have to figure out why you feel like you have no self worth. Everyone was put here for a REASON. Not to just take up air and space.
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Alright, I have this problem all of the time.
In order to have a relationship, you have to have trust. not only in him, but in yourself. Without the confidence you're second guessing yourself.
and gaining self confidence isn't just a 1 man game, he needs to give you constant reassurance, and you need to accept that.
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your problem is .. is that you think that your not good enough for him, not pretty enough, not popular enough.. so what you have to do is learn to love yourself.. push the thought that you have in your head of you thinking that he will break up with you.. you have to evaluate yourself... write a pros list.. of things that you like about yourself or like write up a summery about yourself.. then maybe you can pick out little things that you know he likes about you.. maybe ask him why he likes you so you can start to be confindent in yourself =] i hope i helped and that everything works out like you want it too.. and if you need anything else let me know =]
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