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my first kiss
ok.. like.. i have a boyfriend and all. we have not kissed yet.. but he keeps on telling me online that he wants to... so when i go on the dates with him im always nervous and cautious and stuff. i mean i never kissed anyone before. and i don't now how to do it .. like i dun want to just like stay there frozen... like.. when you normally get your first kiss like even if you don't know how like do you just do it.. or.. cuz i am like really nervous and stuff...
im so confused
Rissa
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im 13
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Oh my gosh. I was just like you a few weeks ago. Don't be nervous, It's so easy. When I got mine i started dancing afterwords haha! It's not that hard to do all you do is pucker your lips and wala! Your just nervous, Dont worry about it. You'll do fine! I ended up doing fine. If it really bothers you that much, Tell your bf you've never kissed a guy. He'll help you out and make you less nervous! Thats what my bf did!
I hope i helped.
-xxx- Samantha
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just go with the flow. don't make out with him or anything just keep it short and sweet.
once your lips touch it's like a natural instinct.
modelkate11
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Aww!! First of all, you're clearly stressing too much over this. I realize a first kiss is a very big deal, but you're blowing it out of porportion, which will ultimately only make it more difficult and frightening for you. If this helps you any, there really isn't a 'wrong' way to kiss. As long as you're not sucking up on his nose, you should assume you're doing at least fairly decent.
It's difficult to tell you HOW to make out, but I found a website that thinks it's capable of doing JUST that: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Goodluck!! Hope this helps!! :P
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okay i know exactly where you are except when it was my first kiss with like toungue, i was 14, and it was weird, when ever we did the chicken peck kisses he would try to stick his toungue in my mouth bt i just kept shut! then he started saying things to me about kissing with toungue and he also didnt know it would be my first kiss so yeah that made it even worse! if you le tthis guy know that he is your first kiss it will make it so much easier, just incase he dosent already! ne wais... lol... yeah but we were going to the movies with al of our friends one night and i new that it was time to kiss him and he realy wanted to and i did to! so i told my self tonight is the night no matter what i have to kiss him before the movie is over, it is our night to have our first kiss... and i did it! it worked i told myself to do it and i had total confidence in myself, just have confidence when you do it! i cnat explain but when it comes you automatically know what to do i naturally comes to you! it feels like you have done it alot of times if your confident in yorself, thats the key confidence, dont let him know that you are nerves! my boy friend pulled away smiling and had no idea he was my first kiss til i told him! he said it was one of the best kisses cause i didnt try hard and i didnt go all out hoe, i was just relaxed, natural, soft, and myself! it was great! and i hope yours is just as fun! good luck gurl, and remeber, confidence is so the key... i hope that i could help out and all so yeah if you ahve ne other questions just drop it in my box! good luck and i wish you the best of luck! confidence, remember that! x3 H a N n A h
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heyyyy its very natural its scary at first tho but when you get into it its verrryyy natural dont be nervous at all its ok
hope i helped <33333
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Seriously, you do not have to have any idea what you are doing. People with experience can be awful kissers. The fact it is your first time really doesn't matter as much as you think.
Just pay attention to what the other person is doing and mimic it. Make sure your breath is okay too.
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Omg i remeber my first kiss I thought the same thing trust me when he goes in for the kill everything you do will just flow naturally lol trust me you'll no what to do when the time comes and the biggest problem i had was where do i put my hands?! Well just stick them on his hips just in case!!
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Its not at all hard to do. No reason to be nervous. I have found a website that can help you out if you'd like to take a look. :)
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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