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dont know what to do.... so little time


Question Posted Monday July 4 2005, 12:55 pm

im going to dump this guy today. i cant get him on the phone tho. he isnt online, so i dont know what to do. tonight i have a date with another guy but i dont like cheating so i wanted to dump the other guy first. please help!

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Earvin answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:17 am:
yes cheating is bad ether wait for some 1 to pick up the phone to say its over or leave a message thats ut is over and its not really condiser cheating .

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karenR answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:09 am:
What you should have done is dump the current guy before you even THOUGHT of accepting a date with someone else. Since it is a holiday he is probably gone for the day. You may have to wait until tomorrow. I don't think you need to tell him that you dated someone else. Why hurt his feelings needlessly. Just tell him you want to break up and leave it at that. Next time break up with one fella before saying you'll go out with another. :)

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Sum41bizzyd504 answered Monday July 4 2005, 8:36 pm:
OMG! MEANY!! LOL jk aww... umm try to email him... try to get a hold with one of his friends... and tell him the bad news and maybe he could tell him..sounds kinda harsh... but hey what can i say im just trying to help...


xoxo

<3 Liz

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Tinkerbelle answered Monday July 4 2005, 3:31 pm:
wait a minute, you planned a date with another guy while you were with this one? that's really low of you.. i don't know how to help you, except for leaving him a message on the phone or emailing him and hope he gets it soon. good luck with that..

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Teza answered Monday July 4 2005, 2:00 pm:
Hm.. if he wont asnwer his phone just leave him a message or something. See if he is home if he is just go over there if you can or have a friend tell him while you are on the date if you dont reach him. But have fun on the date!! &hearts;//

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crazyoutyamind answered Monday July 4 2005, 1:59 pm:
well if you really cant get a hold of the other guy and you really really dont wanna cheat for one night than just resecudal (sp?) your date well hope i helped and if you have ne other quistions just drop em in my inbox

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LoveNJstyle answered Monday July 4 2005, 1:26 pm:
very good decision. this happened to a friend of mine. she actually did call him and chatted with him a bit then an hour later she was holding the other guys hand...she felt a bit guilty but not as much as she would if she did it without dumping the other guy soo good choice! so yeah i dont think the phone is really that bad because a lot of people do it after a date and thats like horrible..."oh i had a great night, how about you?" "well yeah it was fun but i met someone and were over, bye." see what i mean? so just tell him straight up that you dont want to see him but do it nicely! <3

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VanityScore answered Monday July 4 2005, 1:17 pm:
You can go over his house and tell him, get one of your friends to tell him (if they'd be able to get him on the phone or whatever) or you could write him a note, and get someone to put it in his mailbox.

The only way you're going to get through to this guy if not by IM or the phone, is to see him in person. Good luck... I'm rooting for you-- you have morals.

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iSLAND_x_KiiSS answered Monday July 4 2005, 1:12 pm:
Is there any way you can see him in person? Try to walk or drive to his house if it is close enough and tell him that way. Keep calling, and if he still doesnt answer, send him a text message telling him that you want to break up. Stay online, and put up an away message telling him to call you if he sees it. If all else fails, tell the person you are on a date with the situation, he will understand and maybe even help you out.

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