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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do
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Okay first you take some spit from your mouth and rub it on the tip of his head like around the hole, then play with his balls as you playfully lick his tip of his head, then go all the way down then come up fast, play with it until he precums so he doesn't bust in your mouth then you up down and you kinda clamp on his **ck and jack him off so that he doesn't bust 4real in your mouff. Hope I helped.
I sound like a pro, but haven't ever did that, well any oral at all, but neways hope i helped.LOL
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I only gave head once and he wasnt wearing a condom but who knows if those 2 other girls have herpes or whatnot. i say a flavored condom.
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well if he has gotten head from 2 otha girlz i bet he doesnt have std.and you dont have to use a condom..i have given head before ill be honest and itz not that good tastin..soo ya
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megz
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Giving a guy head isn't going to give you a baby only sex will and so i have to say no don't use a condom and as for tips while you give him head i've actually had this done to me before tickle his balls lol trust me a good feeling.
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you dont need a condom when doing head. but if he has had to gurls before you do that to him he might have it but it is not that much of a threat because they probley dont. i dont want to scare you so they probley dont but no guys dont like useing condoms or anything they like it ruff but you know what if you want to get pregnet that is your descion so use a condom or get on the pill. but NO who ever told you, you need to have a condom for head is wrong
hope i helped,
<33 Lexie
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Well, before you even do anything more with him i would get him checked up on by a doctor just incase he does have some type of std, and so then your safe and you dont have to worry about stds. Um he could possibly have an std but if its the girls first times he most likely wont, but then again it could be a lie, But both of you should get a test done just to be safe you know? um, giving head with a condom on sucks, but its the most safe, but if you know for sure that he doesnt have an std and neither do you, i dont see why you need a condom. Hope i helped yaa
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Kristi
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u cant get pregnant or anything from giving head but you could get an std if you dont want to take the risk of getting an std than dont do anything!hope i helped!
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If he won't get tested for STDs, use a condom. Just taking his word for it is a pretty big risk, even if he seems like a trustworthy guy.
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I wouldn't risk it.. use a condom just in case, you wouldn't want to end up with an std. But definitly use a flavored one, because the regular ones have a disgusting taste. And go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) for tips on giving head and everything like that.
♥ Taylor
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if its jus head you dont need a condom now sex u betta use protection. but if you feel betta wit protection use it and if he cant except you can do it to me and ill use protection lol
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Okay. The only way this type of thing can work is if both people are perfectly clear on the boundaries - if neither one likes more than the other and is hoping this will bring them closer together, if both are consenting, and if both are responsible.
This means that you should not be doing all the giving, and you should not be putting yourself at risk. Guys may not like condoms, but are you willing to put your health (and possibly life) at risk just to please some guy you aren't even dating?
Please understand I'm not judging you, just trying to point out some of the realities you could be facing.
Best of luck.
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you can use a condom but you don*t have to. I*ve given head a few times and i don*t have any stds, the only ones you can get from OrAl are the ones around your mouth which are herpes and you only get those if he has "genital herpes" which are visable. I once had a guy wear a condom n he flipped sh!t, they don*t really like that, but do what you want i guess haha. have fun, n don*t get too attached with the whole "f.w.b" thing i did it once and turned out very bad. but best of luck n hope i helped. please rate.. chel*c
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Condom's aren't really nessecary unless he's be extremely sexually active with numerous partners. If he ins't lying to you about his past than you shoul dbe ok.
Its hard to give tips really about how to do it because every guy is different. Usually best to go with the h/j b/j combo, so you avoid chocking or teeth. Work the head and the upper shaft in your mouth and keep a firm grip on the lower shaft, stroking slightly. Communication is the key. Ask him if he likes it or if it feels good
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When peRfoRming oRal sex.. many STD's aRe DEFINITELY POSSIBLE!! And YESSS, it IS DEFINITELY possible that he could ALREADY HAVE ONE. Most guys peRfeR NOT to use condoms while Receiving oRal sex. HOWEVER, since YOU would be taken paRt in this activity as well.. you have a MAJOR say in this. You actually have **THE** OVERALL say in it, because you can simply REFUSE to do this WITHOUT a condom, ya know?? Many times people aRe wise about this and use condoms. These condoms aRe the same as that of condoms you would use duRing sexual inteRcouRse. Condoms nowadays come in many diffeRent coloRs, textuRes, flavoRs and even glow in the daRk. You could have fun with it!! And that could also take caRe of the question of whetheR to spit oR swallow, if that's a dilemma to you?? Honestly, you shouldn't eveR eveR eveR eveR engage in activities which make you uncomfoRtable. If you'Re a bit scaRed of this whole STD thing, which is to be expected, then use the condoms!!! NO ONE has the Right to foRce you into ANYTHING!! It's YOUR body, theRefoRe YOUR choice!! Just stand youR gRound.. you have eveRy Right to.
I've included a link all about STD's and theiR pRevention. Please take a look at this and think haRd on whetheR pRotection is something you choose to use oR not.... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Hopefully this helps you..
Goodluck deciding! :)
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