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bi-sexual ?
how do you know if your bi-sexual ?? because i think i might be but im not sure .. like whatsz a sign of it ?? cuz like .. id have no problem hookin up with a girl or like eatin her out or somethin like that .. idk why but i juss like think its not a big deal .. an could bi-sexual lead to like lesbian ? because seriously i dont have any problemsz with gaysz or lesbiansz but i jus dont wanna be one .. like bi-sexual ? eh aint that bad n i know i proly dont have control over it or not .. but can someone PLEASE HELP ME
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I can tell you that you are not bisexual and you are most certainly not a lesbian. There is much more to sexuality than having "no problem" with making out with someone. If you want to have your romantic relationships be with just guys (as in, you want to date just guys) then you are straight. If you want to have your romantic relationships be with just women, you are a lesbian. If you want both or just don't care about the gender of your significant other, then you are bisexual.
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well i would say you are bi-sexual. and it could lead to being a lesbian. i had a friend that started out straight, then dated a guy who made her make out with another girl...and she had no problem with it after that. and she ended up being bi-sexual. and now she only hooks up with girls...and she hasnt hooked up with a guy since.
take it from me babe
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... wow.
Okay, well, if you have feelings for girls and are attracted to them as well as guys then you could be bisexual.
Sometimes bisexuality leads to lesbianism, yes. I have a lesbian friend who was straight, then bi, and now is gay. Sweet girl.
So... are you attracted sexually to both guys and girls? That would make you bisexual. Or perhaps bicurious.
Personally, I think sexuality is more of a sliding scale than a black and white situation. You may be mostly attracted to guys, but a little but to girls. Or vice versa. It doesn't matter, really. A lot of teenagers are bicurious and then grow out of it, it's very common, so this might be a phase. But it might not.
Depending on your age, you might want to experiment and test your feelings.
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well never be ashamed of who you are. and you can tell ifour by if you like both boys and girls. N0ow if you like mostly girls it doesnt mean you lez it just means you like girls biut as long as you like guys. So I mean test youself. Experiment with a boy and a girl saee what you like better of if you ike both the same . But to me you seem bye. But there is nothing wrong with it. Hope I helped you
bIaNcA
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No, being bisexual does not mean that someday you will be a lesbian. Bisexual people like to have relationships with both men and women (NOT just have SEX with them..) and are real about it.
Now, if you think about it enough, you'll know the answer. Are you attracted to girls and boys? Would you have a relationship with a boy, but would also have a relationship with a girl?
Think about it. No one's rushing you. You have a lot to think about at your age, and sexuality is one of them. Oh - and there is NOTHING wrong with being bi. Why don't you 'wanna be one'? Is it becuase people you know around you don't agree with that? Is it because you're afraid to face it?
No one has control over their sexuality, and your sexuality can't be changed. You are who you are.
Whether you're bi or not, just realize that you're going through all kinds of changes right now. Do what you know is right, and please don't change what you KNOW is right just because others don't agree.
if you have other questions about this, drop a question in the inbox. no worries.
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Well if you wouldnt have a problem with eating a girl out then i think your BI. Theres so nothing wrong with being BI. Look at me :o) lol. And if you like boys too thats good. I love boys and i like girls. I no its might seem strang and everything at first but you'll get used to it. I've never ate a girl out before but if your ready too and aint got a problem with it go on ahead. Dont be like ashamed of it or anything and dont be afriad to tell people or to tell your bf if you have one. IF you have a bf then he shouldnt mind if you are BI cause he loves you. I might be hard for him at first but if he loves you he'll try to work it all out with you being BI. And BI probley could lead to being lez but only if you wanted it to. Cause i no i never want to be lez!I have no problem with them though!*-*Hope I Helped*-*
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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i think your bi-sexual.. and thats a good thing
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dealing with what you just told me..yes it sounds like you can be bisexual. Straight girls dont think its ok to eat a girl out. strong signs of you being bisexual is developing a crush on a girl and wanting to do things with her. if you have fantasies about girls..its another good sign your bi. Being bi doesnt mean you lesbian..it could lead up to you staying with girls for awhile.
being gay and bi is becoming more accepted in society...dont be ashamed of your sexuality..its ok!
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i'll help you! okay well it depends are you attracted to girls? could you see yourself having like a life with them etc. from what your telling me i think you are bi-sexual.. but that is just my opinion from what your telling me.. yeahh bi-sexual could lead to a full course lesbian because maybe if you are with a girl you feel more comfortable with them then a man.. but then again being bisexual could lead you to becomeing straight again too... and no you dont' have control over it because being bisexual is in your genes you can't just wake up one morning and be like "ohh today i am going to be a lesbian" it doesn't happen like that.. it is different.. i hope i helped and good luck!
xox.....
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well would you ever actually want a GIRLfriend? if you just wouldnt mind hooking up with a girl, you're probably bi-curious. and a lot of girls are like that, i don't think it will lead to being a lesbian if you still like guys too.
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Umm.. Bi-Sexual means you like Men + Women, it doesnt actually mean you have to come into sexual contact with both of them, or even one of them,but thats what usually happens. From your perspective, since i assume your a girl, i would say yes being bi-sexual is actually saying your lesbian, but straight at the same time. I have no clue if you would have control over it ? Because im not bi-sexual, but im assuming you possibly could. But my opinion is, theres nothing wrong with being bi-sexual or having bi-sexual relationships.
♥ KRiSTEN
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