Okay so I've got these two friends Jessi, and Kayne. And last friday our school had a field trip. Well on the field trip we had to be split into groups.
Niether kayne me, or jessi had the same group so the field trip was pointless. Well anyways on the bus on the way there jessi and kayne sat by each other and it was cool they talked to me, no problem there.
However the thing was that when we got back onto the bus they sat by each other AGAIN. Only this time they didn't talk to me once till half way back to school. Kayne said " hey how was your group today" and then before I could say horrible he and jessi were back together chatting. They didn't say another word to me after that. so once we were at school it was 3:05 we got out at 3:10.
I was fed up with it so I finally said, why won't you guys talk to me. THEN things got interesting. They accused me of being jelous, and that it wasn't fair to them. That I shouldn't blame them for anything.
So now idk what to do. WHat should I do tomorow act like it never happened or ask for an apology or ignore COMPLETELY?
I tried to call but they don't pick up, and I KNOW they're home. I saw them.
I want things to go back 2 the way they were before.
ediemarie answered Monday September 22 2008, 7:10 pm: Hi,
I don't know the history of your friendship, but from my experience, 2 is company and 3 is definitely a crowd. I've been in this kind of thing before and it always turns out the same. I'm either on the inside or the outside. I don't know why that is. It's just that 2 of the 3 always seem to find more in common than the other or have the same views about the same thing.
It could be a matter of jealousy on their part for whatever reason. You're going to do nothing but stress yourself out worrying about it. YOu're never going to figure it out and I'm sorry for that.
It seems like they are already in allegiance with each other.
I would however talk to them for your own piece of mind. Ask for an explanation and tell them what their friendhip means to your.
That's really all you can do.
Definitely do not act like it didn't happen or they'll keep doing it. I really hope it works out. I'll be thinking about you. Keep me informed.
Good luck,
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