I've been with my boyfriend for almost one year and 3 months. Lately I feel like he doesn't trust me around my guy friends. Today I hung out with two of my closet guy friends and he says that it's 'f***ed up' that I hung out with them....
He's starting to make me more frustrated and I seem like I'm crying more than I have before.
Additional info, added Wednesday September 3 2008, 5:34 pm: He lives in West Springfield, which is about 2 hours away.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VeNzUeLa answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 4:20 pm: Maybe you guys have just grown out, the relationship has run its course, something along those lines. So talk to him and tell him that, those guys were your closest FRIENDS and nothing more, and he should trust you with them. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. A relationship is based on trust! So if he doesn't trust you, then, is there a point of a relationship? Tell him that it hurts you that he doesn't trust you, and it's been too long, so he should.
mooch789 answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 1:23 am: He may have some trusting issues with these guys that he cannot get over. Reassure him that ABSOLUTELY NOTHING is going on between you and these guy friends and that you love him.
If that fails completely, you may want to rethink your relationship! Good luck! Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
SeanyBoy answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 9:59 pm: Hey!!
The first thing to do is sit down and think!
You're boyfriend may have some minor trust issues he needs to deal with.
If this jealousy has only recently been occuring it might be a good time to talk to him about it.
It may be that he feels as if the two of you are drifting apart.
I would try and give him a bit more emotional support at this time as it could be that he feels just a little left out.
Explain to him that these guys are you friends and nothing more!
Might also be a good idea to try and get him involved with what you and your friends get up to!
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