I'm obsessed whith a boy who doesn't even like me anymore. He and i used to like eachother and we hung out everyday, talked on tha phone and stuff. But now we hang out like once every 3 days, & rairly talk on the phone. I try calling him but he always says "oh i have to do this i'll call you later" but he doesn't call. So then i'll start to think maybe i'm annoying him i should just give him some space, so i won't call him but then he calls me and asks me to hang out but i'm busy with someone else. and so the other day i was like wow we never talk anymore and he said oh it's cause your too busy for me..& so now all i want to do is sit at home and wait for him to call because i really really like him.but now i'm wasteing my summer waiting for him to call. please someone help me not be so obsessed because i know he doesnt like me as much as i like him and i just want to know what i should do?
i think hes just playing a game because he likes the attention. ok, forget about him.if he wants to talk to you that bad let him make time and call you if he doesnt oh well. dont be the female dog. he likes seeing you pathetic because he gets an ego boost. you seem like a caring person and should find people who are equally caring.face it hes not worthy. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
lalagurly answered Thursday August 17 2006, 12:36 pm: well you cant put your life on hold for some guy so ii suggest carry on with your life and tell him you like him adk him to go with you out tell him it seems pointless not to you like him and you think he likes you if he says no then dont be sad no you know and wont have to obsese you guys will work through it and still be friends.but if you do date him than dont always wait around for him you have other friends who love you!!!!
babyygqirlx3 answered Thursday August 17 2006, 12:06 pm: Seriously, call him, tell him straight out the next time he says I'll call yo later be like, well I won't be home waiting for you just because you know I'd wait. And then say you either like me or you don't, what's it gonna be?
this really shouldn't be all on you because it's his fault that you're busy. You didn't do anything wrong and if he's not calling you back then he's an idiot. He knows exactly what he's doing. You can still like him but seriously, don't waste your summer because he's being a jerk.
Talk to him about it and if it doesn't change find some friends to hang out with more, and start talking to other guy friends that have potential.
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