hey I am 13 almost 14 and over the summer i fell in love with this guy and he really liked me to and we finally planned a dat and everything and then my friend x friend now stepped in and old this guy all this bad stuff about me that isnt true and i was so mad so then he told me nothing could happen and we could only be friends .... But the biggest proboblem was he was my 1st Real love what do I do I cant stop thinking about him and when I do I cry .....I also find it hard to talk to him like I use to when we were just friends please help me!!!! (I am from Canada)
If I were you, I wouldn't fight with your ex friend, blow her off and act like it doesn't phase you. You don't need that bitchy drama in your life. You deserve a better friend than that.
Also, tell this guy how you really feel about him. Tell him that you think it's unfair to not give you a second chance, and how he didn't ask you if any of it was true. He just went straight to believing that asshole.
Get him to like you again like he did before. Be completely honest to him about everything, and tell him the truth if he wants to know something. He needs to know he can trust you before having a serious relationship with you.
I really appreaciate you coming to me with your advice. If you ever need anymore feel free to IM me at BabyyGqirlx3
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