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im not real sure how to talk to a guy i dont know. please he
im not so sure how to talk to a guy. im gonna be a sophmore this year and im switching schools. there was no problem at my old school because i knew everybody since Pre-K. but im prob gonna see a guy i like and wanna go talk to him but wont be so sure how to. no scratch all of that. how do i talk to anyone i dont know. im afraid im not gonna have friends too. im not a shy person on friends but i dont know how like the girls are. mean snobs or whatever. i really dont have any prob with girls just guys. at my old school everybody pretty much liked everybody wasnt really any mean person. just like the same. i would like to make new friends though. am i just supposed to go up and say hi and talk to him and be like im new here and what if he is a jerk or something and like does somethin mean or whatever. now at my other school i would just do it but then again i knew him and like what he liked or whatever. i just dont know how to handle new ones. it would be nice if i could like learn how to get him to like walk me to class or sit with me at lunch but... any ways please give me good answers. most of the time they arent that great. thank you to anyone who helps. by the way i start next week.
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well about guys
guys like girls who are confident and cool
girls they can chill around.
if you see a guy you wana talk to
but don't know what to say and new kid stuff.
like were's the office or can you help me find
my locker
or hey do you know where mrs. blablabla's class is.
you know new kid stuff.
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i know how you feel. going to a new school is tough because you don't know anyone or what the'll be like or what will happen. it's totally unperdictable. what i think you should do is go to school confidant and just be your self. most of the time friendships and relansinships just start out naturally beacause you meet in class and enjoy talking to each other and have the same intrests. i don't think you should go say hi to people like you are desprate for friends or somthing. i think you should just be calm and cool, be your self, and not worry about it so much.
good luck
harts bigboy13
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Well, I don't know how it feels to go from knowing everybody since Pre K to going to a new school and knowing no one; But i do know how it feels to have to make new friends all the time.
To make friends, be nice, curtious, polite, funny, and obviously yourself. Introduce yourself to people. If you get lost ask someone where to go and when they give you your answer or show you, tell them about yourself, or ask about them. I'm sure someone will come talk to you if you look like a nice person. The key to gaining new friends is staying away from drama and keeping secrets. And most importantly, be yourself, don't lie to gain popularity.
It's easier to talk to a guy if you become friends with them. Get to know them better by talking about them. Then when he says something you like, tell him you like it. Like if his favorite sport is football, and its yours - tell him its your favorite too. It's really not that hard. Once he knows that you have a great personality, let him know that you are interested, without telling him. Flirt with him, boost his confidence. Be mysterious and leave him wanting for more. Compliment him A LOT. It's that simple.
If you are nervous and quiet no one will talk to you. Be yourself and don't be afraid. It's really easy. Hopefully my advice helps you!<3
Sincerely,
Abby =]
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Making new friends is always a little difficult and I can't tell you much, because well...who knows if the people are snobs or if they are very nice. I do know that generally, people are eager to meet the new kids in school. So if the people are nice, they will come up to you and try to be friends with you. If they don't, then you'll have to make an effort and try to make conversation with people you think seem approachable.
As for the guy thing, since you are new in school, you can play it up a little "hey, i'm new in school, could you show me where this class is". If they guy is a jerk, then forget him. Why would you try to make a friend in someone who is mean.
Try not to be too nervous and just go with the flow, you're bound to meet new people.
Good Luck.
-Teacup
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