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trust
okay;; well i havea huge issue with trust
but its only with this one boy.
i really dont care about anyone else
well. anyways.
okay.
sometimes i dont belive he loves me
i mean theres a differnt bewteen
"thinking" you love someone
and "knowing" you love someone.
and i KNOW i love him.
and he said he KNOWS he loves me
but i dont believe him
and he asked me how can he prove it
but i dont know how?
so do you got any advice on what i should do with
telling him to prove it.
like any ideas.
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I know a lot of the time love is thrown around like a frisbee and not meant, but if you continue to doubt how he feels about you, you'll end up losing him.
He can't just think he loves you, because if he just thinks it, then he doesn't really feel it.
Ask yourself why you are so insecure about his feelings for you. There is obviously something going on within you that is forcing you to not believe what he says.
Once you have figured this out, sit down and talk to him as an adult and explain to him why you doubt the way he feels about you.
I know guys don't always do things that show how they feel, but sometimes, just sometimes, they do tell the truth about their feelings.
learn to trust him and not be so insecure. You're probably afraid of being hurt and are closing yourself off and not allowing yourself to believe that he does love you, which is not good for either of you.
Deal with your inner issues and then deal with this.
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wow...the same situation im in....my boyfriend tells me the same thing..when he said how can he show he love me...i tell him its a question he have to answer because if he love me he will know ways to show me that he love me...so tell him..that will get him thinking..
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yu cant really make a person prove something like that... and if you don't believe him, i'm not sure you love him. If you loved someone you would be open to them, and caring not disbelieveing and dishonest.
if you really want to ask him to prove it though, don't go about it like that.
just blatently asking a person to prove they love you is wrong.
if you need proof you don't love him, if you're in love you will feel it and not doubt it and you would do anything for that love because when it is gone, it's not coming back, and that is quite a dark place.
Solemnstar
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