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always fighting
me and my best friend are ALWAYS fighting or arguing over something. and its always so stupid. we have really strong opinons, so we kind of clash...so basically, why do you think that BEST friends would be fighting so much? over the dumbest things?!
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Iknow EXACTLY how you feel!! The same thing always happens to me. Here is a solution I tried. (it worked)
You guys are probably fighting because you see each other a lot. So you should:
1: Hang out with some other friends more, you don't have to be attatched at the hip. (If you don't have any other friends, make some!!)
Before you do that, make sure she knows that you aren't ditching her, an dthat you guys are still best friends!! Good luck :)
~Katkrazy
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I actually do have an asnwer to the question....because you guys are best friends, you are willingly to fight for each other. You know that you guys can fight over silly things and your friendship will still last. However,y uo ight want to try spenidng less time with her and more time with your other friends.
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A difference in opinions will often lead to clashes. And that is why you generally disagree with your best friend. By arguing, you are talking and socialising with them, thus making them your friend. But, you also realise what they are like when you do not fight with them, and that also improves their status in your mind. You really never have a true friendship until you get into a fight. :)
Just be careful. After a fight, let the other person know that you still love them, and other positive stuff. Apologize, be friendly, and you'll do fine.
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well i have a best friend and we argue alot thats basically what best freinds do or you guys jsut need to spend a little bit of time away from each other then you should be okay if you dont talk for liek 2 days talk to her and tell her about it and she would understand if she hates all the arguing 2.
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Sometimes when you find you and someone fighting a lot and getting on each other's nerves, it usually means that the both of you need a little time apart or not as much time as you spend together.
Being best friends doesn't mean agreeing on everything. If you best friend walked, talked, and acted just like you, you'd get annoyed of her fast. But she's a different person, she has different views on things in life than you do and that's normal.
When you find that you both are in a disagreement, just listen to her opinion and then change the subject to avoid a fight. Besides, you never know, if you heard her opinion, you may try to open up to that thought and truly wonder how she sees it that way. Don't put her opinions down and if you find that she's putting yours down, let her know that you feel disrespected. If she continues to push, then suggest hanging out later or just say that you believe one thing and she believes another and that should be the end of it. No wasting your friendship debating.
-TheTeenGirl
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me and my best friend do that too!! ha, for us, it's cause we're together A LOT! so then, we kind of get sick of each other, and we're so much alike it's easy for us to fight. What i would do, is kinda take a break from hanging out with her so much, cause then you guys will have better things to talk about than arguing. Or, when you find yourself getting into an argument with her, just stop, and tell her it's stupid and you dont like fighting.
Good Luck <3 `'` Brittany
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