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rape got out


Question Posted Wednesday May 10 2006, 9:52 pm

i was rapped--twice.and i was telling my cousin about it (online) and her sn is sord of like this perverted (but we were cool) kids sn..and i ACCIDENTALY IMed him insted of my cousin..so he knows all about my rape. he now hates me..and i tried talkin to him but hes being rude and wont talk to me and if he does its an insult. then he IMed me and was like,"im ganna tell everyone" and went on his away message and it said " (my name) GOT RAPED!"im soo upset..my friend offered for her bf to beat him up..but hes not answering his phone or anything.. (2 people know about the rape)..WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!
anything will help at this point

love always and forever
sam


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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Saturday May 13 2006, 12:24 pm:
hey i know you probably want ur friend bf to beat the hell out of him but that only makes things worst. go to somebody with more authority because thats just rude and what kind of peson would do something like that. hope it works out for you .

sorry about your rape
Jazzy**

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Little_silent_voices answered Friday May 12 2006, 1:04 pm:
I kno this probly isnt the best answer but id have yur friends bf beat the shit outa of him. Sweetie I was raped to and if anyone is going to mock that yu were raped then they deserve to get the shit kicked out of them. Its not right. people did it to me and they got what they diserved

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illLuvUbetterx3 answered Thursday May 11 2006, 8:56 am:
ohh my godd thats really sad... welll first of all he is a major dick if he would do that to you and tell people and stuff... confront him and talk to him calmly..let him know that what happened is really personal and you were really hurt when people found out about it.hope i helped
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vilelove answered Thursday May 11 2006, 1:16 am:
hey. taht guy realy sucks. first stop apologizing to him. you don't have anything to be sorry about. then tell him that he's messed up and you would never do that to him (even if u would... it'll get to him more if you say you wouldn't) and that you can't be his friend anymore and you'll never forgive him and that you thought he was cool but you were wrong. then stop talking to hi and ignore him and if anyone asks tell them he is making things up about you and that is why you stopped talking to him.
i'm sorry you had to go through something like that and i'm sorry there's people like that guy.

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helpmebrenda answered Wednesday May 10 2006, 10:46 pm:
Hi Sam

What a complete jerk!!!!! I'm not sure what sn stands for, but I'm assuming he's family?

I think the best thing you can do, is try to ignore him. Hopefully if you don't respond to him, or let him get a rise out of you, he will get bored with it and leave you alone.

I've been through rape, so I know how fragile your mind is at this point. The last thing you need is ANYBODY actually teasing you and making fun of such a tragedy.

Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt by this.

Assholes like that will get theirs in the end. What comes around goes around.

Take care, and try to keep your head held high!

Brenda

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