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games? i guess ...
i like this guy and we're friends, but i dont know if he likes me. i dont really want to tell him how i feel because im still a little confused about it. so does playing hard to get work? that way i pretend he doesnt mean anything to me and maybe i can see if he misses me, or notices that we dont see eachother. what else can i do???
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No, don't. Just ask him out. If you are too shy to do that then make is obvious that you like him by talking to him and hanging out with him. Games are for children, you are more mature than that.
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No I don't think you should play hard to get. Playing hard to get doesn't work on me. But every guy is different. Some like the thrill of chasing after a girl and others take that as a sign that they need to move on. I think if you want him to know you like him then you should tell him through your actions. Flirt with him and treat him a little better than what you have been doing before.
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Hi. Playing hard to get can show you that he really likes you... but there's a risk that he'll just think you really don't like him and it's pointless and go away. However, no matter what happens, the good thing about playing hard to get is you get to keep your dignaty NO MATTER WHAT. Personally playing hard to get has never worked for me. It makes the guys sad and then if they see me talking to other guys jealous and... IDK, they seem to 'move on'. And playing hard to get has only worked for me with the guys I didn't want to get. Only with this one guy I played hard to get (sort of... really I was just mad at him) but he did 'chase' me but he really cared about me so I know he would have done that no matter what. Caring and attraction aren't necessarily the same thing so I would suggest you do is stick to the 'highschool' ways of knowing if he likes you... get a friend to ask him, ir flirt with him and see if he flirts back or seems weireded out, etc. I don't know what kind of guy he is so I can't say for sure that playing hard to get will work with him. It does work with SOME guys, I have seen it. But it depends on the guy.
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You can do that. Or he'll completely leave you alone because he doesn't want to chase after you.
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