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There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..?
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well i think they wont last because a girl can only take so much pain. if he makes her cry everynight then hes not a good boyfriend. stay friends with her. wait a little while. when they break up(if they do) then be there for her. give her surport. shell relize that she is your eevryhting n shell probably start to really liek you. love isnt goin to happen in 5 minutes. its goin to tak a long time
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There's nothing really you could do, but be a friend and talk to her.
Tell her that he isn't worth her tears. And any guy who is, wouldn't make her cry. (Got that froma quote, if it sounded familiar to you.)
You can't really tell her that 'she deserves better.' that just basically tells her that your just want them to break up.
But the best thing you can do is be a friend. And make her smile/laugh.
Hope I helped =]
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tell her that you cant take this anymore and that you dont want to wait if its not for any reason tell her to choose right now if she wants him or you because you think that if shes making you wait for no reason that thats messed up and tell her if she doesnt brake up with him it means she obviously loves him and that youll just forget it and soon shell see that she misses you and wants you and shell come running to you =]
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let her know your there for her. if she needs someones shoulder to cry on or someone to come to - let her use yours or talk to you. dont be scared to be the best friend before the boyfriend. give her advice- but dont always say "break up with him" - she doesnt wanna hear that. tell her she deserves someone who doesnt make her cry.. ect. make her feel like shes missing out by not having you. but like i said - DONT DONT DONT [ x47 ] pressure her to break up with him. if she says she is gonna do it - she prolly will. and obviously shes thinkning about it because she told you. oh, and because she DID GO OUT with you - shes obviously interested. so i would just wait it out. dont give up hope so soon. BUT that doesnt mean shes the only one you can be interested in. always leave your options open in this case.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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Aww, and she likes you back? Aww! ...sorry. Well I think you should be there for her. Keep going out when you guys aren't busy and hang out and talk on the phone whenever you can and stuff. I think she may really care for her boyfriend and/or doesn't want to be alone and she thinks if she breaks up with him she will be alone. But she's having problems with her boyfriend so even if you do stop talking to her eventually she and her boyfriend will break up, and the fact that she likes you means that subconsciously she does want to break up with him and isn't with him just because she really likes him because if that were the reason she would only like him). She'll see that you're there and you really care about her and see how much happier she can be with you and how breaking up with her boyfriend doesn't mean she'll be alone (it may also be scary for her if it's the longest relationship she's had). Of course, I do advice you to keep your options open... don't get your hopes up too high and don't be closed minded about meeting a girl from your school or somewhere else. Just in case for some reason nothing happens between you and the girl you like.
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tell her to think about hoes better for her
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