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does he like me or not ? plzz people help!!!
there is these 2 boys in my class and they stare at me and my friend all the time but they look me in the eye they deny that they like me online.but they wont talk to me in person its like theyre scared too.one of the boys talks to the other one about where they live but the other boy already knows where he lives.they also talk about other girls like trying to get me jealous or something he says " i wanna go out with " so and so but i dont know what hes tyring to do ... do you think he likes me ? or my friend what other signs would a boy do if they liked me ? my friend and i pass notes back and fourth and they try to look do they like me ?also one of them did a nod thing i dont know what it means and i asked him on here why he dosent talk to me in school he said i dont know on here and in art class he pulls up his shirt and his friends are at my table and he talks to them alot and stares at me he looks me in the eye but he has a gf theyve been together since june 05
he gets up at lunch time and looks over at my table do you think he likes me ? i dont know what he is trying to do he nods at me ... he told me on here that he nodded to me in school and i turned my head .. if i knew that i wouldnt have also he seems to follow me around school. i dont know whats up with him my bestfriend thinks that he likes me but no1 knows he will only talk to me online not in person it seems like he is scared .
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Hey. Well if either one of those two boys like you only one of them does. The other one knows about it and tells his friend stuff like "she's not looking" or "i think they are passing notes". You know how friends are. I'm sure you've done that when your friend likes someone and you stare at him too although you don't like him that way. You do it for her. Because if they both liked you they wouldn't talk about you together or tell each other they liked you or act funny together lol if you get what I mean.
But to tell you the truth it doesn't really seem like either one likes you. I'm not saying they DON'T like you but it's not enough info to tell if they DO. I mean... ok staring is a very good sign but they only talk 2 you online? That's not very good. Also just how much do they stare at you? Do they look away when you stare back? Because if they do then maybe because they're shy around you (or one of them will be) cause he likes you. If they don't then... that's weird cause they don't talk 2 you. Have you tried talking 2 them in person? Also the one who has his giflreind.... one theory is that he thinks you're hot but it's not like he wants to cheat on his girlfriend so he doesn't really want 2 talk 2 you in person so ppl won't think stuff. But... well ok when he denies liking you online does he say "i don't like you" or "i don't like anybody". And does he mention his girlfriend? If he says he doesn't like anybody and he doesnt mention his gf he may like you. Also, signs would be talking to you a lot (...even if it's online I guess). Like when you get online he strats talking to you or when you talk to him he responds maybe not super fast but it's not like he doesn't respond until the next day or anything. He responds within a reasonable time lenght like an avarage of at least 5 minutes. Also if he asks you who you like and sort of hints that he likes someone but doesn't know how to tell her or that he's scared of rejection or something (lol) ALSO very important it depends the kind of guys they are. Guys who are more open generally tell you that you're hot a lot and stuff but guys that are close and shy don't say anything unless you ask and if they do they don't exagarate and don't say much like they say "you looked pretty" but without being too exagarated or obvious or acting too obsessive. but usally all guys that like you shy or not tend to want to spend a lot of time with you and walk you to your class and stuff and they never say you bore or annoy them oh yes and they never tell you they like another girl (girls in general maybe but not a specific one with a specific name).
One last tip, the best way to know I always think is to look at it as though you weren't you. Be realistic and fair. Don't look at only what you want to see look at every hint the good AND bad. don't assume they like you because you want them to and don't assume they don't because you have low self esteem either. be REALISTIC. ...Or try.
good luck. sorry it's long. hope i helped. p.s. i think the one who dosnt have a gf likes you. but theres info lacking so i woudlnt be so sure...
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It really seems as if these guys have affections for you, but they deny because they have girlfriends. Which is perfectly understandable. The next time they stare at you, ask them, "What?" See if they react. If they turn away or look down, they do definitely have some interest in you.
First of all, ask them WHY they are doing this nod thing and staring.
And actions depend on your feelings for them:
If you just don't like them or just view them as friends, ignore them whenever they stare and just stay silent if they flirt. You can't make them not like you without being mean, so I just suggest pretending they aren't staring at you. Eventually, their feelings will change because you aren't responding to them.
If you do like them as something more, they'll eventually break apart from their girlfriends if they really do care for you. When that happens, you flirt. You smile warmly at them when they stare or if you're daring enough, wink. Only if they turn single though, because it'll be totally wrong for you to break a couple apart.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C ♥
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